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Apparently, this is when you think so little of yourself for one reason or another, that you think somebody else is worth more than you.
Usually results in self-fulfilling prophesy.
Apparently, this is when you think so little of yourself for one reason or another, that you think somebody else is worth more than you.
Usually results in self-fulfilling prophesy.
Yep.
Talking about "leagues" and ranking people with numbers is what middle-schoolers do, not grown-up people.
I don't have a league. Neither does anyone I know. We date who we like.
You may not "have" a league, but you are in one. So am I. It's not bad, its not good, its what it is. We don't date who we like, we date who likes us back.
You'd probably do best to try luck with real-life. If you're not that cute, OLD may make things worse, as many people look worse in pictures, even cute people.
So, it may be best to interact with people in-person. Another thing to try is improving yourself in different areas, you you have a higher chance of being appealing to the types you like.
You may not "have" a league, but you are in one. So am I. It's not bad, its not good, its what it is. We don't date who we like, we date who likes us back.
I kind of agree. I put in the terms "we choose from among the options actually available to us". I think there's an aversion to the connotations of the word "league", maybe having something to do with the implied rigidity of it. There are always exceptions, but people tend to date and mate and marry people who are about as attractive as they are, about as well educated, and with generally similar backgrounds.
I'm assuming real life since the vast majority of the time only women I find unattractive/average message or match with me through online dating. Not sure if it's because my pictures really suck or that I'm not as good looking as I thought.
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