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I have always been chiefly attracted to girls, and that's pretty much the only sex I cared about throughout most of school.
However, when I was around 18-20 (about 10-12 years ago) I started to feel a certain special attraction for some men as well.
BUT - it has to be one very specific type of men.
The man has to be a great deal taller than I am, preferably somewhere around 8 inches or so (I am 6'0 myself though, so that doesn't happen too often) and he has to be both visibly and technically much stronger than myself, because I love feeling tiny and delicate around a much larger and more powerful man.
And he also has to have a good balance between kindness and strictness - definitely not a pushover, but at the same time a warm and romantic personality.
For some reason I have always felt extremely drawn to men with these qualities - but of course, finding a man with all of these specific traits is really hard, but I know that when I do meet a man like this and actually have a sexual interaction with him for the first time in my life, it will be extremely pleasant.
This is the ONLY type of men that I am actually attracted to, and like I said, I have had these kinds of feelings for men like this for roughly a decade - is this enough to count as typically "bisexual", or is it just some "bicurious" thing?
Just curious. Hardly even that because you've never tried to make it happen by seeking out such a guy either online or at a gay bar. Sure, he might be unusual but you could get pretty close and find out for sure. So at this point it is only a fantasy...a turn on...maybe a way to privately feel a little naughty. Everyone has fantasies, and many are of the "bi" variety but that doesn't mean they'd actually do it or enjoy it if it were to happen.
I have always been chiefly attracted to girls, and that's pretty much the only sex I cared about throughout most of school.
However, when I was around 18-20 (about 10-12 years ago) I started to feel a certain special attraction for some men as well.
BUT - it has to be one very specific type of men.
The man has to be a great deal taller than I am, preferably somewhere around 8 inches or so (I am 6'0 myself though, so that doesn't happen too often) and he has to be both visibly and technically much stronger than myself, because I love feeling tiny and delicate around a much larger and more powerful man.
And he also has to have a good balance between kindness and strictness - definitely not a pushover, but at the same time a warm and romantic personality.
For some reason I have always felt extremely drawn to men with these qualities - but of course, finding a man with all of these specific traits is really hard, but I know that when I do meet a man like this and actually have a sexual interaction with him for the first time in my life, it will be extremely pleasant.
This is the ONLY type of men that I am actually attracted to, and like I said, I have had these kinds of feelings for men like this for roughly a decade - is this enough to count as typically "bisexual", or is it just some "bicurious" thing?
You are likely bi. That would be my guess. I have only every been physically involved with men.... but once and a while I have found myself very attracted to certain women.... but it ends up being more of admiration then sexual in nature as I have never travelled down that road. That is what I wold consider "bicurious". I think if you have went all the way ... well I think you are likely bi-sexual.
I don't want to have my post be deleted or anything so I will make it brief, I thought I was bisexual due to something but then I realize I'm just a bit of a pervert.
The type of guy that you describe tends to be in high demand in the gay community and a height of nearly 7 feet is pretty uncommon. Are you a good looking guy OP?
I guess you have to figure out if your attraction to these guys would be a sustainable over the long term or if it's kind of a curiosity that would be satisfied by a one time experience. Only one way to find out. Maybe see if there are shorter guys but still taller than you could work.
I don't want to have my post be deleted or anything so I will make it brief, I thought I was bisexual due to something but then I realize I'm just a bit of a pervert.
Just for the record, you're not a pervert. Nothing in your posts suggests anything inappropriate at all.
I don't want to have my post be deleted or anything so I will make it brief, I thought I was bisexual due to something but then I realize I'm just a bit of a pervert.
It would be considered inappropriate on a CD forum and I don't want to DM it because I know those are monitored as well.
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