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Old 06-10-2016, 06:18 AM
 
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I met this girl recently who I happen to like a lot. She came to stay with my family for about two weeks, she is from a different country btw. She is quite quiet (but not really quiet if you know what I mean) so it's difficult to pick up on signs of her liking me. She didn't really show any signs of liking me while she stayed during the first week and just treated me like a normal person. After that, she started to relax and smile a bit more when I began a convo with her and when I was just talking to her. She would talk to me more confidently and started a conversation more confidently too.

It is likely that she is a person who takes time to adapt to her surroundings and that the person she showed me in the second week is her normal self at home. When I met her in her home area and she was with her friends, she tended to be more like the person she was in the second week of her stay here. But because I liked her, a lot. I felt that it may be possible that she in fact liked me back, although I didn't have any solid evidence to support my claim.

Just before she left, I was with her at the train station, just the two of us, we were talking like we would've done a few days before and she seemed fine. But when it came closer to the time she had to leave she started to cry a little and she hugged me for a second. Now I know that girls can cry when emotional but it didn't seem like something she'd do. I won't be able to see her for a long while either. However she did say that she really enjoyed her stay so do you think that that could the reason she was emotional? Do you think she is interested in me?
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Old 06-10-2016, 06:21 AM
 
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She was being kind, nothing more especially since she has gone back to her own country.
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Old 06-10-2016, 06:22 AM
 
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As always why don't you ask her directly in some manner instead of asking the opinions of people on a forum that don't know the small details?

Call her or send her flowers or something.
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Old 06-10-2016, 06:28 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I didn't see enough signs of "like."

Too early to tell.
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Old 06-10-2016, 07:02 AM
 
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It seems clear that she likes you (otherwise she would not be friendly.)

Oh. You mean "like-like."

Does it matter? She's gone now. Are you expecting to have a loving, fulfilling text romance with her?
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Old 06-10-2016, 07:03 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Who knows and why does it matter? You're not going to see her again for a long while.
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Old 06-10-2016, 07:44 AM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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How old are you if you don't mind my asking?

From what you've shared here, it doesn't sound like she 'like-likes' you.
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Old 06-10-2016, 08:12 AM
 
Location: The Great Northern Plains
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C'mon people, she's not going to cry if she's not at least a little bit interested. I think there's enough there to warrant a conversation with her. But before you get too carried away.....is there an opportunity to see her again? Given that she lives in another country and all. Do you want to pursue something with someone that you may or may not see any time soon? Not advocating for any particular decision, just something to consider before charging ahead.
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Old 06-10-2016, 08:19 AM
 
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Didn't you get enough advice when you recently posted this same story under a different username? I think the gist was "Ask her", even though you were prepared to emigrate to her country in a few years, when you are of legal age.
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Old 06-10-2016, 08:34 AM
 
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Didn't you get enough advice when you recently posted this same story under a different username? I think the gist was "Ask her", even though you were prepared to emigrate to her country in a few years, when you are of legal age.
Yea they never follow advice given but continue to create new thread on same subject
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