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Old 06-10-2016, 04:32 PM
 
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You assume that because most casual encounters stem from a bar. Seedy, but true. The thing about purchasing a drink for a girl is that it provides an opening for you to chat with her. That's how I see it, at least.
"Hey, what are you upto?" $0

"Hey, can I buy you a drink?" >$0

Both are an opening
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Old 06-10-2016, 04:37 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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"Hey, what are you upto?" $0

"Hey, can I buy you a drink?" >$0

Both are an opening
I am up to 5'2"... I don't know, can you? ( afford to buy me a drink).
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Old 06-10-2016, 05:23 PM
 
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I am up to 5'2"... I don't know, can you? ( afford to buy me a drink).
Hehe

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My issue with the drink approach is the stigma that it basically means that I would want to get in the girl's pants ASAP.

In fact, I might want to, but only superficially at that point. Maybe mind-blowing for a guy to say, but, I would approach the girl because I want to get to know her. So I keep my greeting rather simple or purely situational.
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Old 06-10-2016, 05:32 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I'm horny.
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Old 06-10-2016, 05:34 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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Hehe

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My issue with the drink approach is the stigma that it basically means that I would want to get in the girl's pants ASAP.

In fact, I might want to, but only superficially at that point. Maybe mind-blowing for a guy to say, but, I would approach the girl because I want to get to know her. So I keep my greeting rather simple or purely situational.

Then buy me two... Cause you'll probably still be ugly after only one.

( just kidding).
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Old 06-10-2016, 05:42 PM
 
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I'm horny.
Can anybody help Raena out?
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Old 06-10-2016, 05:53 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Can anybody help Raena out?
Lol, I was answering the op.
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Old 06-10-2016, 05:55 PM
 
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Lol, I was answering the op.
I know, but that comment was totally begging for my response, LOL.

I just couldn't stop myself!
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Old 06-10-2016, 06:06 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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Can anybody help Raena out?

Where's LC30 when you need him?
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Old 06-10-2016, 06:09 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Well, then he damn well better play guitar! I'm joking (kind of). Casting back in my memory, I think there was a time or two where the guy was just a stunner and we just got to chatting sans drinks. It can happen.
He learned to play guitar using Keith Urban guitar lessons.....
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