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Old 06-22-2016, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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Why did we need to know about the 30 partners? What exactly does that add to the situation? Sometimes it's better to leave things out.
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Old 06-22-2016, 01:17 PM
 
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Another "I can't see you for two weeks ... but I can see you after July 4th?" what is it this time?
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Yes. The July 4th thing was weird. If you're just going through a breakup and you don't know how your emotions will be how can you put a date on when you want to speak to the person again?

It does sound like she's warming you up for possibly "needing" something from you in the future, OP...perhaps that she has someone on the hook (I'm sorry) but isn't sure yet whether it will work out with him and just in case things don't "happen," at least she'll still have you to keep her company so she's not alone.
Agreed. Something stinks in suburbia. I suspect she has plans for with someone else for the next two weeks/the holiday weekend.
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Old 06-22-2016, 01:19 PM
 
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Why did we need to know about the 30 partners? What exactly does that add to the situation? Sometimes it's better to leave things out.
The OP is asking for advice so it helps give more of a background to him.

To be honest from reading his posts about this Ukraine woman I thought he lacked experience and was hooked by the offer of some sex. If he's already slept with 28 women (I assume she was 29) then the OP needs to question what's causing the neediness towards someone who is/was stringing him along. I'd have assumed it was inexperience. If 28 women have consented to sex with him (assuming they weren't prostitutes) then he's clearly got a lot of game to pick up women and find a mate.
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Old 06-22-2016, 01:37 PM
 
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If you have to ask about marriage you're not ready for it.
Don't let your age walk you in to situations you're just not ok on.
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Old 06-23-2016, 06:08 AM
 
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I am GOBSMACKED that someone would actually say this in their "out loud" voice! SERIOUSLY???


Could you possibly BE more insulting?
So you are ok dating a guy who's been with a guy?
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Old 06-23-2016, 06:17 AM
 
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Are you ok dating a woman who's experimented with a woman? I thought guys liked that sort of thing.
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Old 06-23-2016, 06:18 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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So you are ok dating a guy who's been with a guy?
Are you ok with dating a woman that's been with a woman? No different.

I am. In fact, I'd be hard pressed to find a good, educated, adult woman that hasn't. They're almost unicorns.

But whatever, totally off topic.

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Why did we need to know about the 30 partners? What exactly does that add to the situation? Sometimes it's better to leave things out.
Nothing, but this with the other posts leads me to believe there is an issue with awareness and social cues. Someone in the last thread mentioned the OP has apsergers. I don't know if that is established but something is off.
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Old 06-23-2016, 07:43 AM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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So you are ok dating a guy who's been with a guy?
I would not be OK dating a gay man. Not because he is gay, but because I want a man I date to be interested in me.

OP has been with 1 man and 29 women. Obviously, he prefers women. So what is the big deal?
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Old 06-23-2016, 07:45 AM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Why did we need to know about the 30 partners? What exactly does that add to the situation? Sometimes it's better to leave things out.
Well, we know he isn't hung up on this particular ex-girlfriend because she's the only woman he has ever dated.
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Old 06-23-2016, 08:02 AM
 
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]I would not be OK dating a gay man.[/b] Not because he is gay, but because I want a man I date to be interested in me.

OP has been with 1 man and 29 women. Obviously, he prefers women. So what is the big deal?
There you go.
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