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Old 06-22-2016, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Sacramento
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Did your wife express a problem with sex to you before the affair?
NO and that's what pissed me off I had no idea she felt that way
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Old 06-22-2016, 04:10 PM
 
Location: Sacramento
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You're married? She isn't your girlfriend?
What do you mean??
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Old 06-22-2016, 04:11 PM
 
Location: Sacramento
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You're married? She isn't your girlfriend?
Yes married
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Old 06-22-2016, 04:12 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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NO and that's what pissed me off I had no idea she felt that way
THAT'S what pissed you off?

How long have you been married?
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Old 06-22-2016, 04:15 PM
 
Location: Bordentown
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no. Divorce and move on.
Make sure to take some time to heal before jumping into another relationship.
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Old 06-22-2016, 04:17 PM
 
Location: sumter
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You should be just as pissed with your so called best friend and how he did you like this.
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Old 06-22-2016, 04:18 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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If you love her but won't have sex with her, why don't you just work out an arrangement with the two of them and stay married?
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Old 06-22-2016, 04:20 PM
 
Location: Sacramento
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THAT'S what pissed you off?

How long have you been married?
FOUR YEARS
I'm not just pissed about the cheating it's the fact that she had to go to my friend instead of telling me about how she felt about my sex.
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Old 06-22-2016, 04:21 PM
 
Location: Sacramento
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You should be just as pissed with your so called best friend and he did you this.
I am I broke his phone and got into fight afterwards
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Old 06-22-2016, 04:23 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Gemini, I'll be honest with you. There are too many major issues in this thread for us to help you with.

If you haven't already, I would find a therapist in Jackson who deals with childhood sexual abuse and begin healing. Truly, nothing else matters more than that.

How you deal with your relationships with others after that is up to you. Good luck.
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