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Old 07-06-2016, 02:21 AM
 
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It's a real lol moment when you announce that you have to pay for sex when millions of men and women have sex for free. I think the joke might just be on you.
He did not say that. That's what you got out of it.

And the sex is NEVER free.
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Old 07-06-2016, 02:41 AM
 
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OR they could take the less drastic step of doing some approaching of their own.
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Old 07-06-2016, 04:33 AM
 
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Well, they're clichés for a reason.
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Old 07-06-2016, 09:04 AM
 
Location: State of Denial
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Go to places that hot women go to... the gym. And try to compliment them without being creepy. Most of my friends go to the gym with their SO. So after a few weeks of lite snooping you can figure out if they're single or not
The gym is the wrong place to try and pick up on women...most of them are paying those monthly fees to get a workout in and not to waste time dealing with getting hit on. They wear those personal mp3 players for a reason.

That just reeks of some next-level creepiness.

PS: And if the girls are there with their SO's, as you state, I wonder how they're being approached by other guys...?
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Old 07-06-2016, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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The gym is the wrong place to try and pick up on women...most of them are paying those monthly fees to get a workout in and not to waste time dealing with getting hit on. They wear those personal mp3 players for a reason.

That just reeks of some next-level creepiness.

PS: And if the girls are there with their SO's, as you state, I wonder how they're being approached by other guys...?
I agree. Whenever I went to the gym I wasn't there to meet a woman.
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Old 07-06-2016, 10:24 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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The gym is the wrong place to try and pick up on women...most of them are paying those monthly fees to get a workout in and not to waste time dealing with getting hit on. They wear those personal mp3 players for a reason.

That just reeks of some next-level creepiness.

PS: And if the girls are there with their SO's, as you state, I wonder how they're being approached by other guys...?
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I agree. Whenever I went to the gym I wasn't there to meet a woman.
I generally agree however........

If you go regularly you will start to see people regular and then it's usually a nod to say hello, then you'll end up complimenting/commenting each other on your workouts and before you know it you are having full blown conversation about anything and everything....

So no it's not wise or smart to try and randomly approach them as you'd get told to sod off! lol, but it's very possible and probable that in time you'll be in a position to ask one out or even get asked out

It solely depends on how you look at it and approach the situation
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Old 07-06-2016, 03:38 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Not every cute woman is taken a woman I have a class with is cute and single. We had a conversation while at the grocery store today and it was a nice way to kill some time and make a new friend. Overall, just talk to people.
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Old 07-06-2016, 04:26 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Why should I "up my game", while women, simply just wait for men to come?

I suppose I may go with the escort option lol
Are we stll rehashing this? Do people seriously think women don't have to "up their game", and just sit back sipping cool drinks waiting for men to accost them out of nowhere?
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Old 07-06-2016, 04:29 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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The gym is the wrong place to try and pick up on women...most of them are paying those monthly fees to get a workout in and not to waste time dealing with getting hit on. They wear those personal mp3 players for a reason.

That just reeks of some next-level creepiness. :dubious:

PS: And if the girls are there with their SO's, as you state, I wonder how they're being approached by other guys...?
No it doesn't. It depends on the gym. Some are more social than others. Most gyms I've been to, people chat with each other on and off. Others have a juice bar for socializing. It sounds like you've been to the wrong gyms, or else you're just using that as an excuse to justify shyness.
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Old 07-06-2016, 04:33 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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No it doesn't. It depends on the gym. Some are more social than others. Most gyms I've been to, people chat with each other on and off. Others have a juice bar for socializing. It sounds like you've been to the wrong gyms, or else you're just using that as an excuse to justify shyness.
That as well....

My last one has an actual bar/restaurant in it....
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