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Old 07-02-2016, 08:13 AM
 
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When I was in college, there were tons of extremely attractive girls in my school. Many of them were way prettier than Hollywood actresses.

But I didn't date any of them because I couldn't attract them.

And now I'm a middle-age guy who is still single.

Let's face it, there are plenty of attractive women, just like there are plenty of luxury cars. We old single guys remain single because we are unattractive. We drive Honda because we can't afford Lexus.

Even the least attractive people want attractive partners, that's why there are no dearth of 40-year-old virgins who can't get laid.
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Old 07-02-2016, 08:18 AM
 
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Yep
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Old 07-02-2016, 08:41 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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When I was in college, there were tons of extremely attractive girls in my school. Many of them were way prettier than Hollywood actresses.

But I didn't date any of them because I couldn't attract them.

And now I'm a middle-age guy who is still single.

Let's face it, there are plenty of attractive women, just like there are plenty of luxury cars. We old single guys remain single because we are unattractive. We drive Honda because we can't afford Lexus.

Even the least attractive people want attractive partners, that's why there are no dearth of 40-year-old virgins who can't get laid.
Dating in college sucked I had bad luck there and stopped trying after getting nowhere. Believe me man you didn't miss anything.
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Old 07-02-2016, 08:48 AM
 
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I agree with 49ers.

Dating is much better after finishing school since people have matured more by then.
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Old 07-02-2016, 08:50 AM
 
Location: New England
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Believing you're a loser is a great way to make certain that you actually are a loser.
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Old 07-02-2016, 08:57 AM
 
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Dating in college sucked I had bad luck there and stopped trying after getting nowhere. Believe me man you didn't miss anything.
I really missed getting laid with attractive young bodies.

College dating is all about the fun part, flirting and getting laid with various girls in their prime age.

Now, dating to me is mostly pre-marriage work. I will turn 30 pretty soon, basically now I only date girls who have the potential to be my future wife. I don't have much time to date only for fun, I have to plan for marriage, parenting and retirement.
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Old 07-02-2016, 09:09 AM
 
Location: A coal patch in Pennsyltucky
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When I was in college, there were tons of extremely attractive girls in my school. Many of them were way prettier than Hollywood actresses.

But I didn't date any of them because I couldn't attract them.

And now I'm a middle-age guy who is still single.

Let's face it, there are plenty of attractive women, just like there are plenty of luxury cars. We old single guys remain single because we are unattractive. We drive Honda because we can't afford Lexus.

Even the least attractive people want attractive partners, that's why there are no dearth of 40-year-old virgins who can't get laid.
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I really missed getting laid with attractive young bodies.

College dating is all about the fun part, flirting and getting laid with various girls in their prime age.

Now, dating to me is mostly pre-marriage work. I will turn 30 pretty soon, basically now I only date girls who have the potential to be my future wife. I don't have much time to date only for fun, I have to plan for marriage, parenting and retirement.
In your second post, you're referring to what other guys did in college since you didn't date any of them, since you couldn't attract them? How can you miss something you didn't do?

When did 29 become middle-age?
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Old 07-02-2016, 09:13 AM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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29 is middle age? Lol
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Old 07-02-2016, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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29 is middle age? Lol
Lol that's what I was thinking.. I thought the poster had to be at least 45 by the way he was talking..
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Old 07-02-2016, 09:26 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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The worst thing one can do is get hitched during college....

Once people enter the real world and mature a bit, they can change drastically; fimcnaially, socially, views, as well as their life goals. Dating in college was fun for me simply because I didn't take it seriously.... neither did the anyone else in my group.

I met my future wife in college but we didn't really seriously think about commitment until after college. We even dated others during that time. We had already known each other for 2 years aftwr college before the topic of commitment even was discussed
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