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You said the same thing to another poster about OLD. Is that your blanket statement because you don't believe OLD works?
OLD works, but only for a certain percentage of the population of guys. You and the other poster I said that about are much the same. You don't fit the profile of the type of guy that is successful with OLD and I really don't think it will work for either of you.
OLD works, but only for a certain percentage of the population of guys. You and the other poster I said that about are much the same. You don't fit the profile of the type of guy that is successful with OLD and I really don't think it will work for either of you.
Why though? Because you think we're ugly or something else?
Why though? Because you think we're ugly or something else?
Women have very little to go by on a dating site, so looks, height, and other external attributes are much more important there. You are not exceptionally good looking, nor are you tall, so you have a disadvantage to start with.
You also don't seem to have interests that would attract women, so it's going to be hard to make up for your lack of exceptional physical attributes by things in your profile.
To tell you the truth, I don't think you are going to have much luck in any realm until you start to make changes in bettering yourself in ways that are also going to be attractive to women.
My parents (my mom specifically) is pushing me to get involved with OLD. My older, married sister as well. They seem to think me joining it would lead to meeting someone and in turn, improve my mood and desire to do things like work out because, their words, I would have someone for whom to care about and improve for.
I have even told my sister that girls don't seem to like me and her response was that that's not true because her friends like me.
Women have very little to go by on a dating site, so looks, height, and other external attributes are much more important there. You are not exceptionally good looking, nor are you tall, so you have a disadvantage to start with.
You also don't seem to have interests that would attract women, so it's going to be hard to make up for your lack of exceptional physical attributes by things in your profile.
To tell you the truth, I don't think you are going to have much luck in any realm until you start to make changes in bettering yourself in ways that are also going to be attractive to women.
I sent you a message about some free podcasts that I think would help anyone in the dating/relationship realm. I'm already pretty successful in relationships and I learned a lot from them. Apparently I can't name them on the forum without them getting deleted. I guess that is against the rules.
I think if you check them out with an open mind, you will learn way more than what anyone here can tell you about what you are trying to accomplish.
I sent you a message about some free podcasts that I think would help anyone in the dating/relationship realm. I'm already pretty successful in relationships and I learned a lot from them. Apparently I can't name them on the forum without them getting deleted. I guess that is against the rules.
I think if you check them out with an open mind, you will learn way more than what anyone here can tell you about what you are trying to accomplish.
Is there a specific order in which I should listen to them?
I sent you a message about some free podcasts that I think would help anyone in the dating/relationship realm. I'm already pretty successful in relationships and I learned a lot from them. Apparently I can't name them on the forum without them getting deleted. I guess that is against the rules.
I think if you check them out with an open mind, you will learn way more than what anyone here can tell you about what you are trying to accomplish.
Oh gawd, please don't tell me you sent him some PUA bs.
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