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The most recent one was actually remarkably good. In fact, it was hard to believe it was the OP. Seriously. I think he must have had his hair done at some special salon, or maybe he just finally found the right barber, and then had a professional studio head shot done. Maybe he went to one of those "Glamor Shots" places, that do your hair, put on theater makeup, and loan you clothes for your photo session--the total package. They really bring out the best in people who aren't photogenic in normal circumstances.
The most recent one was actually remarkably good. In fact, it was hard to believe it was the OP. Seriously. I think he must have had his hair done at some special salon, or maybe he just finally found the right barber, and then had a professional studio head shot done. Maybe he went to one of those "Glamor Shots" places, that do your hair, put on theater makeup, and loan you clothes for your photo session--the total package. They really bring out the best in people who aren't photogenic in normal circumstances.
I've never taken a pro picture or even a picture that made me look anywhere near as good as I do in real life. I look like a greasy ethnic guy with a big nose in pictures. In real life, I look Spanish/Italian, normal size nose, nice golden complexion, pretty wavy black hair, etc...
I have no complaints about my looks, if I had been born a gay male or woman with the equivalent looks, I would have a fantastic dating life
And what you're saying is not true. I went out yesterday with my buddy and bunch of women who work at his salon. I had no problems talking to them - but none of them were attracted to me. I honestly think straight women have the highest and most demanding standards of any demographic. They are beyond massively picky
I've never taken a pro picture or even a picture that made me look anywhere near as good as I do in real life. I look like a greasy ethnic guy with a big nose in pictures. In real life, I look Spanish/Italian, normal size nose, nice golden complexion, pretty wavy black hair, etc...
I have no complaints about my looks, if I had been born a gay male or woman with the equivalent looks, I would have a fantastic dating life
And what you're saying is not true. I went out yesterday with my buddy and bunch of women who work at his salon. I had no problems talking to them - but none of them were attracted to me. I honestly think straight women have the highest and most demanding standards of any demographic. They are beyond massively picky
You were showing off an impressive picture last time. It didn't look anything like your other ones, and I'm not talking about the selfies.
Anyway, it's not about women's pickiness. You're blocking yourself in some way that you're not aware of. Remove the block, and the energy will flow, and women will pick up on it. But also be aware that most people don't click with each other, aren't each other's type, and so forth. So you can't expect magic just because a friend brought some babes to a night out.
Really, OP, counseling isn't anything to be embarrassed about. Life happens, stuff happens. The smart people go to a qualified professional to get it taken care of, so they can move on in life. The dumb people keep spinning their wheels, avoiding the very thing that would catapult them forward, and driving people on online forums crazy. Enough whining about women being picky. Bite the bullet and start Googling counselors/therapists in your area.
Well, if you think you're a 6-8 but all you ever get is interest from people not in your league, then perhaps you need to revisit your rating scale?
You have also concluded that money isn't everything, so work on those other aspects in order to attract your target audience.
And, here we go! He'll trot out all the superlatives about how he has a great personality, everyone loves him, so there's nothing to work on in that regard. 10 pages later, we'll all still be at Square One with him.
You were showing off an impressive picture last time.
I understand but what I'm telling you is even that picture is nowhere near as good as I look in real life, especially not now since I've dropped about 10-15 lbs from that picture... and you want to sit there and tell me I'm being too picky for wanting a mildly attractive woman my age
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Anyway, it's not about women's pickiness. You're blocking yourself in some way that you're not aware of. Remove the block, and the energy will flow, and women will pick up on it. But also be aware that most people don't click with each other, aren't each other's type, and so forth. So you can't expect magic just because a friend brought some babes to a night out.
I totally understand that most people don't click but there's no way to justify why I've had zero attractive women my age be interested in me
Like I said before, I was a gay male or a woman with the equivalent appearance, I would have probably had a model quality attractive mate by now. It's just absurd how much harder dating is for straight men than any other demographic
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