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Old 07-15-2016, 10:04 PM
 
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Money is irrelevant if you freeze up when women talk to you.


not true. I just don't have mildly attractive women who are attracted to me



The only exception to that seems to be women way way older than me. I was seeing a semi cute 45 year old for about 3 weeks last month. She was crazy about me - I had to end it though because it was only fun for me and she was starting to really like me (we were seeing each other a lot). I didn't want to lead her on


The women who I have actually gone out on dates with, vast majority of them liked me - just none of them were attractive and my age. If you gave me dates with 3 decent looking women my age, I would have a gf in a week

 
Old 07-15-2016, 10:06 PM
 
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Has unrealistically high standards for prospective partner's looks because believes self to be in better shape than he really is -- CHECK!

You think that I want a woman who is a fitness model. In reality, I just want a woman who is in decent shape with some nice curves.



I'm not absolutely shredded but I have a flat stomach with huge shoulders/big arms/thick neck/etc... I would love the female version of that (IE decently flat stomach with tons of curves)
 
Old 07-15-2016, 10:07 PM
 
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You don't look anything like him. Your nose & face shape = completely different .
Where are these pics?
 
Old 07-15-2016, 10:09 PM
 
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not true. I just don't have mildly attractive women who are attracted to me
What a short memory you have! It's a good think we remember your story better than you do.

There was an attractive woman who wanted to dance with you at a club once, but you came here crying afterwards because you brushed her off or couldn't deal with following up with her, or something. Then there was a woman you spoke to when you were walking around the neighborhood; conversation came easily because she had a cool car, and you felt comfortable talking about cars, but couldn't bring yourself to ask for her number or take the convo past the car topic.

Both met your standards for looks.
 
Old 07-15-2016, 10:10 PM
 
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You think that I want a woman who is a fitness model. In reality, I just want a woman who is in decent shape with some nice curves.



I'm not absolutely shredded but I have a flat stomach with huge shoulders/big arms/thick neck/etc... I would love the female version of that (IE decently flat stomach with tons of curves)



Same old, same old.
 
Old 07-15-2016, 10:11 PM
 
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Frankly, what you were calling the Mario Lopez look wasn't doing you any favors. Whatever you did to get the hair you had in the most recent photo you posted is what you should stick with.

Honestly I have nothing to complain about looks wise. I'm not the most beautiful man on the planet but I'm more than handsome enough to get an attractive girl my age
 
Old 07-15-2016, 10:11 PM
 
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Where are these pics?
Yes.. I understand it is confusing... but this poster is a repeat performer.
 
Old 07-15-2016, 10:13 PM
 
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Honestly I have nothing to complain about looks wise. I'm not the most beautiful man on the planet but I'm more than handsome enough to get an attractive girl my age
Yup, it's him, folks.

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Old 07-15-2016, 10:14 PM
 
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Same old, same old.


my point is that I'm not a 6 looking for a 10


I'm about a 6-8 (depending on who you ask - I look 500x better in real life than pictures) looking for a 6-8
 
Old 07-15-2016, 10:19 PM
 
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my point is that I'm not a 6 looking for a 10


I'm about a 6-8 (depending on who you ask - I look 500x better in real life than pictures) looking for a 6-8
I'm not going to get into an argument about that. Because it's actually fairly irrelevant to your main problem, which is that you freeze up around women you're attracted to. There's nothing we can do about that, so I don't know why you keep posting the same old, same old. Since your first threads here, people have told you to find a good counselor to deal with those anxiety issues (rooted in emotional scars from the highschool scene you had to deal with). You can afford counseling. You know where the roots of your problem lie.


Yet, .... you keep bouncing back to us. You won't find anything new here. It's all been done to death on all your previous threads.
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