Marriage and Having Sex (dates, younger, meaning, personal)
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]Yes, you have set a condition for dating that is very unpopular, so you should expect the available pool of men that will agree to that condition to be very small[/b]. I understand your choice, but you have to understand that every person has the same rights on this issue. Your choice to abstain from premarital sex may be the correct choice for you, but is incorrect choice to many others. I understand your disappointment, but there are men who are likewise abstaining. I would try to look toward christian groups or other groups that share in resolution against premarital sex. I know that abstention groups exist. Christina Mingle is a dating platform for christians. I am not sure if you are a christian, but if so, or if you would be comfortable dating a christian, this might increase your chances of finding a like minded partner.
I wish you the best of luck. Its a difficult condition to put onto a relationship, but it should not prove impossible to accommodate. I will not get into the private details of what sexual activities you are comfortable with, but that is another area where you and a potential partner might find common ground and still enjoy sexual relations without intercourse.
I agree with all these comments.
Very few men will put up with a condition like that.
It will very likely lead to cheating or ending the relationship.
At least in my area I never met a guy friend who is willing to put up with that.
Good Luck, that a harsh condition even I would fail at.
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That's good for you but why is that "right". Maybe not you but I have seen/heard quite a few virgins who are saving themselves have a superior attitude…and that is "not" right.
Because in our other relationships, we were not living according to God's word. Intimacy outside of the marriage bond is wrong, according to God's word. We wanted to do it the right way.
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Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30
It's a good answer ..... But unfortunately I can't see a bloke waiting until marriage unless....... He's religious, has no other options or is a virgin as well.
Yeah, we're both religious (though not all religious people wait till then, of course). We were both atheists before though (me for a much longer time than he was), which is why I said we wanted to do something right for once; we believe that intimacy outside of marriage is wrong in the sight of God. My husband though is much older than me, so he's way past that testosterone peak; in fact, I was the one back-sliding and thinking about not waiting. He kept saying to me, "I want to do something right for once!" (He's not one of these holier-than-thou Christians--he'll be the first one to tell you he's had a hard struggle with sin; all of us believers do, if we're honest with ourselves).
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Because in our other relationships, we were not living according to God's word. Intimacy outside of the marriage bond is wrong, according to God's word. We wanted to do it the right way.
Sorry I don't follow.....
" Not living according to gods word " in your previous relationships meaning sex?....
How is that saving yourself for marriage?
Ps I'm not religious so I'm not fully cognisant with the " rules " and don't wish to pry, I genuinely would like to understand it a bit better.
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Originally Posted by bronypride
Why is it so hard for guys, waiting until marriage to have sex? I am a virgin and I am saving myself until marriage to have sexual intercourse. But most if not all guys, can't wait until marriage to have sexual intercourse. They all need it now, and can't wait it out. Why is this?
Because no guy in his right mind should be willing to promise someone the legal and spiritual ramifications of marriage without knowing what he can expect sexually.
Because in our other relationships, we were not living according to God's word. Intimacy outside of the marriage bond is wrong, according to God's word. We wanted to do it the right way.
Yeah, we're both religious (though not all religious people wait till then, of course). We were both atheists before though (me for a much longer time than he was), which is why I said we wanted to do something right for once; we believe that intimacy outside of marriage is wrong in the sight of God. My husband though is much older than me, so he's way past that testosterone peak; in fact, I was the one back-sliding and thinking about not waiting. He kept saying to me, "I want to do something right for once!" (He's not one of these holier-than-thou Christians--he'll be the first one to tell you he's had a hard struggle with sin; all of us believers do, if we're honest with ourselves).
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Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30
Sorry I don't follow.....
" Not living according to gods word " in your previous relationships meaning sex?....
How is that saving yourself for marriage?
Ps I'm not religious so I'm not fully cognisant with the " rules " and don't wish to pry, I genuinely would like to understand it a bit better.
Thank you for your time
Edit: Please forget this bottom post of mine as you've answered it above
Thank you for explaining that..... And I'm glad you are happy with your choice
Really? Any type of sex? If someone has masturbated or had oral sex than they are no longer a virgin? What about French kissing, cuddling and making out? Does that disqualify a person from being a virgin?
A virgin is someone that has never had sexual intercourse. Not sure why "virgin" has become such a confusing term.
A virgin is someone that has never had sexual intercourse. Not sure why "virgin" has become such a confusing term.
Yes but can you please explain what " sexual intercourse " is please?..... Blow by blow account preferred.......
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