Cheating in marriage

[Mr. Ryu]

Originally Posted by nurse_cares

Advice? Thoughts?

Will you love her/him, comfort her/him, honor, and keep her/him in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others, be faithful to her/him as long as you both shall live?

Marriage vows are an empty promise. You can't really state for certain that you will do all the above if **** goes bad. The solution is stop making false promises. IMO, it also gives people a false sense of entitlement. (ie; your are my wife so you have to love me, etc. i don't have to keep up with my appearance, try to make you feel special, etc) Once people become too comfortable in the relationship it becomes dull and leads people to stray. I believe that people need to daily acquire the love of their significant other.

My advise is to tell your husband everything and file for a divorce. Request dual custody on the kid and start a relationship with Dr.Love!!!

[Howest2008]

The good Dr. Doesn't want her he only wanted her for a fling.

[dejaentendu19]

I think I'm top 97% of dads that help out with all of the newborn work, so we may be in different situations. However, if I found out my wife cheated on me I'd kill it and do everything I could do to get full custody. He must be of a different breed than myself.