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Look, I know I say this to a lot of posters - but the thing is - this is YOUR life. You are the one that is making the decisions. You are the one that has to live with the consequences. We are strangers. We don't know you, your wife, or your brother. We don't know what is going on. Don't look to strangers to tell you what to do here. Do what you need to do.
Agreed but I thought this was a good place to talk to others and get simple opinions believe me I'll make the final decision for me and what's best for my family. Thanks
I can't give you advice on what you "should" do, but I can say if you ask someone why they lie and they counter with "i don't know" that's probably not someone to be placing any amount of trust in or towards
Regardless of what has or hasn't happened, this above all else trumps any "possibility" that "could" happen. It's literally being told I don't understand myself enough to reason with my actions.
A lack of understanding leads to lack reasoning skills, forethought and self control
Personally, I couldn't not be married to someone that I did not trust or if I felt I was constantly being lied to being cheated on. So no I dont think it is crazy.
I feel like it's obvious that: Yes she's cheating on you.
Are you wondering if you are crazy because she says "Your crazy!"?
I just can't seem to leave her because I love her so much and we have been together for 15 years. One lie after another and she's always sorry and will never do it again. But she always does. I feel like I could forgive her if she could just come clean and she never will. She never has in the past about anything if she can find another lie to cover it. Only when there is no other way than the truth does she come clean. She hasn't said I was crazy but I'm feeling driven crazy at the moment.
I just can't seem to leave her because I love her so much and we have been together for 15 years. One lie after another and she's always sorry and will never do it again. But she always does. I feel like I could forgive her if she could just come clean and she never will. She never has in the past about anything if she can find another lie to cover it. Only when there is no other way than the truth does she come clean. She hasn't said I was crazy but I'm feeling driven crazy at the moment.
Acceptance of reality, there is peace on the other side.
Acceptance of reality, there is peace on the other side.
I've just got to figure out how to make that step. I've accepted the reality. Just have to figure out a way of finding the peace on the other side. I'm not a bad looking guy and I'm still young and I really do have a lot going for me but so many years of this has done something to me that I don't even understand. Lol kids will make a man put up with a lot of ****!
Man I've just got to figure out how to make that step. I've accepted the reality. Just have to figure out a way of finding the peace on the other side. I'm not a bad looking guy and I'm still young and I really do have a lot going for me but so many years of this has done something to me that I don't even understand. Lol kids will make a man put up with a lot of ****!
Again have you any plans to confront either of them?
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