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Again have you any plans to confront either of them?
Already have. She says she is sorry for the lies and that she don't know why she lied and that nothing happened though. As far as my brother he would never tell the truth and even if nothing happens he's not the kinda guy you want in your life.he cheated on his wife while she was dieing of cancer and has lied his way through life. He stabs people in the back daily.
Without reading the other comments, I will say it's pretty messed up when you can't trust your brother or wife. It also makes me question your character because of the company you keep. You need to have an open honest conversation with both of them and just ask what in the world is going on! If they lie to you, you need to either trust your gut, or get proof. Either way, your wife and your brother should be trustworthy. This shouldn't even be a question. Good luck!
Agreed but I thought this was a good place to talk to others and get simple opinions believe me I'll make the final decision for me and what's best for my family. Thanks
Well, let me ask you this since you know the situation better than we do - if this was a friend of yours in this situation - what advice would you give him? We often give people better advice than we take for ourselves.
She admitted he was there and that she lied about it and that he was just there visiting her. OK well why in the back of the office where you can't be seen from outside. Keep in mind that the office is set up in a way that no one should go to the back but employees so why go back there with him and lock the doors to the office and lie to me about him being there if nothing to hide. She only admitted to him being there after she knew I was outside while he was there. And then she changed her story to yeah he was there but we didn't have sex or anything. Lol
Without reading the other comments, I will say it's pretty messed up when you can't trust your brother or wife. It also makes me question your character because of the company you keep. You need to have an open honest conversation with both of them and just ask what in the world is going on! If they lie to you, you need to either trust your gut, or get proof. Either way, your wife and your brother should be trustworthy. This shouldn't even be a question. Good luck!
Wow, my character? Anyone that knows me will tell you that I'm a damn good guy and I'm very well known for being good to people and respecting others. As far as the company I keep around your wrong my brother is dead to me and has been along time ago. I understand where you would think what you have but believe me you are so wrong about my character
Well, let me ask you this since you know the situation better than we do - if this was a friend of yours in this situation - what advice would you give him? We often give people better advice than we take for ourselves.
Very true!! And I've never thought about it like that.
Already have. She says she is sorry for the lies and that she don't know why she lied and that nothing happened though. As far as my brother he would never tell the truth and even if nothing happens he's not the kinda guy you want in your life.he cheated on his wife while she was dieing of cancer and has lied his way through life. He stabs people in the back daily.
Sod that if that's the case and you've lost all trust in her then you made the right choice...
They are planning a surprise birthday party for you because they both love you so much. It is a huge undertaking and they are trying to figure out how to contact every friend you have ever had in your whole life, they are also working on getting The Tubes to come play White Punks on Dope at your birthday party for you and to ensure all of your favorite foods are offered.
Now I let the cat out of the bag. Please act surprised when your party is announced. They worked so hard at it, I hate to spoil the surprise, but I cannot just let you walk out on your wife when she is just planning your surprise birthday party.
...Lol I know why but she will not admit to anything. A few months before that we all hunt together and I dropped her off at her stand and he was at his about a half mile through the woods. That day she wanted to stay longer when I text her to see if she was ready she told me to wait. Well I went to get her anyway and my brother is walking out of the woods by her stand. Lol he said he was trying to help her get a deer but the looks on their face told the true story...
You're in the woods hunting and you have cell service? Who's your provider?
You're in the woods hunting and you have cell service? Who's your provider?
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Lmao, I know! It's not often that I've got service while hunting but had it that day with good Ole AT&T.
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