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I told him he was being too handsy a few times but he kept going back to the things I told him no for. Then i left after a bit. He wants to hang out today but I'm "sick"... cough.
This is pretty true though. People who ignore your "no"s or keep pushing/arguing/aggressively persuading to get you to change your mind are generally self centered. These are the same people who if you don give in, they get angry or whiny or passive aggressive over not getting their way. Avoid at all costs. They are not necessarily rapists but no good comes out of them long term.
I remember working on movie sets and young female actors and extras who slept with producers or directors never advanced. They were tossed a bone - perhaps a few lines in a movie...then they were ALL disposed of - point being...if you are a woman you will not benefit buy giving premature sex to a man. Sex believe it or not has a sacred edge to it...it is very special and valuable. It is the blending of body and mind between two people who actually care about each other.
Like I said in an earlier post..You have to LIKE the person...men will have sex with woman they do not really like...so will woman. If there is no LIKE there will never be any LOVE. LOVE is the key....affection...tenderness - these are the things that bring quality to human life.
That's your misinterpretation of my tone, now, can you refute my statement about murderers though? I said enough said because it is pretty obvious. I don't defend murderers simply because I don't happen to know one...I know they exist regardless.
Again, more tude.
Logic 101. Third graders can get what you're saying. I never said that rapist and murderers don't exist. All I said was that most people are simply decent, of course not all are otherwise we wouldn't have FBI crime stats and victims all over the place.
This was perfect timing. I went out on a date last night. Did a little making out and I had to tell the guy to keep his hands in respectable areas at least 10 times. I know he feels like I am a prude but no 2nd date
Why would you continue to fool around with a dude that you had to tell him to stop 10 times?
Wouldn't say after 3 or 4 times you figure you probably should pack it up and go home?
This was perfect timing. I went out on a date last night. Did a little making out and I had to tell the guy to keep his hands in respectable areas at least 10 times. I know he feels like I am a prude but no 2nd date
If his hands are to be kept in *respectable areas* perhaps on the table at dinner is a more appropriate place for his hands instead of his assuming you said *yes* since you decided to *make out* (I'm not even sure what that means anymore).
The most respectable way to keep one's hands where they belong is to not invite them anywhere on your body. Your mixed signals can be and are quite frustrating and irritating to men.
Hades, your actions are frustrating and irritating to me and I am a woman who wasn't even on the date.
So, make a choice if you are going to have sex with someone then proceed, otherwise a simple hug and kiss at the door at the end of the date is a very clear message.
I told him he was being too handsy a few times but he kept going back to the things I told him no for. Then i left after a bit. He wants to hang out today but I'm "sick"... cough.
So it is better to lie about being sick instead of telling the guy you don't want to see him again and telling him the truth as to why?
I cannot even fathom how that is logical.
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