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Old 07-28-2016, 11:24 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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Yes... it sucks that I'm expected to initiate all the time. Even worse that it is rejected.

You don't need to be the aggressor in order to initiate.
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Old 07-28-2016, 11:25 AM
 
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Come on...3 or 4 times a day regularly..... the ol' vag would fall off at some point. Let's keep it real here.
"When I buy my wife, at first she cook good, her vagine worked well, she strong on plow, but three years later when she was fifteen, she receive hair on her chest, her voice become deep, and her vagine hang like SLEEVE OF WIZARD."

-Borat
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Old 07-28-2016, 11:26 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Come on...3 or 4 times a day regularly..... the ol' vag would fall off at some point. Let's keep it real here.
Seriously, even with good lube, some serious, uh, rug burn would be going on.
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Old 07-28-2016, 11:27 AM
 
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It just sounds like you two had mismatched sex drives. Would you have initiated if you went more than a week without sex?
Oh probably. He never let want develop in between.
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Old 07-28-2016, 11:27 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Come on...3 or 4 times a day regularly..... the ol' vag would fall off at some point. Let's keep it real here.
worn out.
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Old 07-28-2016, 11:28 AM
 
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I'm sure this makes me sound like a prude, but to me, 3-4 times a day is vacation/lazy weekend sex. That expectation every day? I've got other stuff to do, man.
Yup me too. I like sleep. So then I would turn him down and he would say I don't like him.
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Old 07-28-2016, 11:29 AM
 
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Oh probably. He never let want develop in between.
I couldn't have said it better myself. LMAO
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Old 07-28-2016, 11:33 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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LOL, 3 or 4 times a day is a bit much. I can see if you do that on the very occasional, but normal day to day relationship, I agree, got other things to do.
Lmfao, I'm dead.
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Old 07-28-2016, 11:41 AM
 
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There are many ways to initiate. I've been the aggressor, and the one to initiate in subtle and not so subtle ways. I like being the aggressor.
Generally speaking, and from what it has been mentioned in previous threads, the women that might initiate sex do it differently than men. Maybe in a more subtle cute way I guess and might consider “aggressive” to respond back to their partners advances faster. In your case, what do you consider to initiate aggressively?

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Old 07-28-2016, 11:43 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Yes... it sucks that I'm expected to initiate all the time. Even worse that it is rejected.

You don't need to be the aggressor in order to initiate.
Very good point; there is nothing inherently "aggressive" about initiating sex. I mean really, a person doesn't have to say a darn thing in order to let their SO know that you're fixing for a trip to Bonetown.
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