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How would you like it if you learned that someone wrote a thread about you on a forum - how "ugly" and unattractive you are and how low they had to settle for you? Poor lady.
Meh
I try not to be hurtful and if it were me making this thread, I personally wouldn't have called her ugly. Wouldn't have used that word personally, even if I really thought that way.
But I remember getting a ton of crap on a message board YEARS ago for saying something that wasn't that controversial, it was just that the website was a little too politically correct.
I posted about being attracted to some girl that I thought was ''Mediocre'' looking, but that I really kind of liked her. I remember using the word mediocre and it made some people mad.
But in all honesty, I think anyone that claims that they go out places and don't see quite a few girls that they consider at least unattractive in their eyes, are either lying or just being a little too politically correct.
How would you like it if you learned that someone wrote a thread about you on a forum - how "ugly" and unattractive you are and how low they had to settle for you? Poor lady.
^^^ This was my first thought too. OP, how do you think this woman would feel if she knew you started a thread online about her entitled "going ugly"? Sorry, but that is just really cruel, even though she will never know. YOU know you did it.
Yet you still would "hit it" because you are so freakin' horny. You can fix that yourself in 5 minutes!
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Originally Posted by Runninglikethieves
... But in all honesty, I think anyone that claims that they go out places and don't see quite a few girls that they consider at least unattractive in their eyes, are either lying or just being a little too politically correct.
I'm sure we've all thought that someone is really attractive or really not -- people are attracted to different things. But to start a thread with the title "going ugly" -- to me, that is different. It's like the OP is making fun of this woman behind her back -- even though he would have sex with her because he is so horny. And it's not about being "politically correct" (I seriously hate that phrase) -- it's about, well, not being a cruel jerk.
I'm sure we've all thought that someone is really attractive or really not -- people are attracted to different things. But to start a thread with the title "going ugly" -- to me, that is different. It's like the OP is making fun of this woman behind her back -- even though he would have sex with her because he is so horny. And it's not about being "politically correct" (I seriously hate that phrase) -- it's about, well, not being a cruel jerk.
IDK, I get the impression many men have sex w/women they aren't crazy attracted to. IME. I never came right out asked though.
Yeah...it's amazing how guys can have sex with women they think are so disgusting...and you can hear them laughing and talking them down to their friends later even though they are just as culpable..yeah - sick.
I've never had sex with a woman that was "disgusting" I've had sex with women that were probably about 20th runner up in the local beauty pageant, not gonna lie there, but disgusting. No.
I'm sure we've all thought that someone is really attractive or really not -- people are attracted to different things. But to start a thread with the title "going ugly" -- to me, that is different. It's like the OP is making fun of this woman behind her back -- even though he would have sex with her because he is so horny. And it's not about being "politically correct" (I seriously hate that phrase) -- it's about, well, not being a cruel jerk.
I think a woman should start a thread about "going short" and see how much of a sheetstorm that raises.
I've never had sex with a woman that was "disgusting" I've had sex with women that were probably about 20th runner up in the local beauty pageant, not gonna lie there, but disgusting. No.
I've never had sex with a woman that couldn't give me an erection......
I realize that men generally are more comfortable with a FWB situation than the majority of women.
I really don't want to mislead her on and end up resulting in hurting her emotionally, which probably would be the case if I acted on my instincts here.
Then don't do it, you will only hurt her worse. she is a human after all and deserves better than that.
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