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Old 08-04-2016, 08:29 AM
 
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This is quite embarrassing. I am a girl and I want to marry my bf.
How do you guys think that I could ask for marriage? Just bring it up directly???
We have been together for one year. We are already at our early 30's. He is the one!
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Old 08-04-2016, 08:39 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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"Will you marry me?"

Has been known to work.
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Old 08-04-2016, 08:45 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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This is quite embarrassing. I am a girl and I want to marry my bf.
How do you guys think that I could ask for marriage? Just bring it up directly???
We have been together for one year. We are already at our early 30's. He is the one!
Make sure you only get on ONE knee...... Both and he might have something else on his mind lmao

No seriously my love it's the fact you asked will do it

Best of luck
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Old 08-04-2016, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Princeton
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tell him you love him, you want him, you need him for the rest of your life.
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Old 08-04-2016, 08:57 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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Have you two ever discussed marriage? If not it may come as a shock to him. Better ease into it.
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Old 08-04-2016, 09:03 AM
 
Location: SW MO
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Just do it and be prepared for his response.
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Old 08-04-2016, 10:12 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Is he aware that marriage to him is a goal, or will this come outta the blue?
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Old 08-04-2016, 10:46 AM
 
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Stop having sex with him and then if he asks why, tell him you decided to start saving yourself for marriage. If he doesn't get the hint, you can start looking for someone sharper.
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Old 08-04-2016, 10:54 AM
 
Location: Polynesia
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After one year together you have hopefully discussed long term goals together and know his feelings and intentions towards marriage.

I would do that now, if you haven't.
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Old 08-04-2016, 11:28 AM
 
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Thanks for all the reply. This is a really good suggestion. We haven't discussed about marriage yet. I am from another county so I don't know is it appropriate to start this topic from girl's side. I guess I will ask for his long term goal first. He is virgo, a little "weird" sometimes. No offense to all virgoes. Sometimes he does a lot of things for me but not tell me until I discover them by myself! lol
I live with his mom now so we get closer. I think we get along quite well. That's why I become serious~~~
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