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Old 08-10-2016, 10:17 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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It depends on the woman. Obviously I have those that will give in to me as soon as I say "Go", this post isn't about those. This is about those next level, top notch, super accomplished, out of this world gorgeous women. I get them, but it's a 50 50 hit and miss type of situation. These women are tough. I'm not going to lie. They are the definition of a challenge. Which is why I'm trying to get as much insight as possible. Obviously I don't know how many of those are here, but I need that edge. Do you understand now?
No. You make it sound like you only have one shot with these women, so you have to line everything up, including the stars in the sky, to get them to "give in" on that one occasion. Why not allow the process to take place over time? If nothing happens on that one night, make another date with her. What's the rush?

And now you're saying they're tough? I thought you said they were shy and timid. If they're such a challenge, why not date them the old-fashioned way, like Timberline said--get to know them. Let them get to know you. You sound like you have a conveyer belt going on over there.
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:21 PM
 
Location: The city of champions
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Still seems odd. Why would "prospects" come over? I mean, if a woman comes over its to get it on. If neither of us are sure we're interested we go out and have drinks and talk to get to know each other to see if any of that chemistry is there (as happens with Tinder). Watching a movie doesn't help you get to know the other person or determine chemistry at all. I don't know too many women that are going to go over to a prospects house at night not having pretty much decided what they want, and in that case the movie and all the song / dance seems superfluous.

That's why this all seems artificial to me.
I should have been more clear. This is about out of this world gorgeous women who are also incredibly accomplished. Growing up. I didn't have much experience with them, but now I get their attention. It's still a learning curve but I get them at about a 50 to 50 clip. I don't always get all of them though. That's my struggle. I'll admit, sometimes they get me nervous. I'm trying to harness that.
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:23 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Why is it a struggle? Why do you need better than 50/50? They're not clay ducks to be shot down at an event, to win a prize.
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:24 PM
 
Location: The Valley Of No Fun
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"It puts the lotion on it's skin..."
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:26 PM
 
Location: The city of champions
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"It puts the lotion on it's skin..."
Shush
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:27 PM
 
Location: The city of champions
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Why is it a struggle? Why do you need better than 50/50? They're not clay ducks to be shot down at an event, to win a prize.
I just like to challenge myself to be better at everything I do. This is one of those things.
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:29 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I just like to challenge myself to be better at everything I do. This is one of those things.
Oh, so they ARE clay ducks to shoot down for the highest count!

You could challenge yourself to actually have a meaningful relationship.


Naw, that's just crazy talk.
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:33 PM
 
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I should have been more clear. This is about out of this world gorgeous women who are also incredibly accomplished. Growing up. I didn't have much experience with them, but now I get their attention. It's still a learning curve but I get them at about a 50 to 50 clip. I don't always get all of them though. That's my struggle. I'll admit, sometimes they get me nervous. I'm trying to harness that.
How did it all change from "they're timid" to this?
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:34 PM
 
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Let's all post our rapey movie tips.


"What's the best way to work those panties off."


"101 tips to make her do things she probably wouldn't do if she really thought about it."


I'm glad I don't have a sister and if she brought a dude like you home I wouldn't have to wear out my right hook........
seriously. movies to get your date to "give in"? seriously?! shaking my dam head...
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:34 PM
 
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I should have been more clear. This is about out of this world gorgeous women who are also incredibly accomplished. Growing up. I didn't have much experience with them, but now I get their attention. It's still a learning curve but I get them at about a 50 to 50 clip. I don't always get all of them though. That's my struggle. I'll admit, sometimes they get me nervous. I'm trying to harness that.
You aren't going to "harness" anything. Women are going to turn you down. End of story.

Jeez, how insecure are you, anyway? My God.
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