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Old 08-10-2016, 10:54 AM
 
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I work as a waiter and there is one girl I work with - she's very pretty and nice. She texts me all day every day, she sends me selfies, flirting, tells me personal things, jokes that we should hook up.

But in person she acts like I'm hardly there. All the waiters went out to a bar the other night and she hardly said a word to me.

What gives?

My guess is she just likes texting me for emotional support/ego boost, or she likes me a lot and is nervous to talk to me in person.
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:59 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Or she doesn't want to be seen flirting on the job or with somebody she works with, for whatever reason, and is keeping it on the DL.
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:59 AM
 
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Or she doesn't want to be seen flirting on the job or with somebody she works with, for whatever reason, and is keeping it on the DL.
Good point
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Old 08-10-2016, 10:59 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I work as a waiter and there is one girl I work with - she's very pretty and nice. She texts me all day every day, she sends me selfies, flirting, tells me personal things, jokes that we should hook up.

But in person she acts like I'm hardly there. All the waiters went out to a bar the other night and she hardly said a word to me.

What gives?

My guess is she just likes texting me for emotional support/ego boost, or she likes me a lot and is nervous to talk to me in person.
You are the perfect match in her fantasy world.
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Old 08-10-2016, 11:00 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I work as a waiter and there is one girl I work with - she's very pretty and nice. She texts me all day every day, she sends me selfies, flirting, tells me personal things, jokes that we should hook up.

But in person she acts like I'm hardly there. All the waiters went out to a bar the other night and she hardly said a word to me.

What gives?

My guess is she just likes texting me for emotional support/ego boost, or she likes me a lot and is nervous to talk to me in person.
When you do talk to her ( at work in passing for example ) does she seem nervous and shy?

Either way ask her out and that's your answer
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Old 08-10-2016, 11:03 AM
 
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You are the perfect match in her fantasy world.
I don't understand?
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Old 08-10-2016, 11:05 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I don't understand?
I tried to change the post I made, but I couldn't.

I misread your post, I thought you were saying you worked as a writer. LOL I realized you work as a waiter, I have to agree with the second poster.
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Old 08-10-2016, 01:40 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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Either ask her out or stop texting with her, unless you really enjoy "just" texting with her.
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Old 08-10-2016, 01:41 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Ask her out and end that/her game playing.
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Old 08-10-2016, 01:41 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Either ask her out or stop texting with her, unless you really enjoy "just" texting with her.
At first I thought it was just to pass the time at work kinda thing but as he's says it's all the time ......

A green light I would have thought?
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