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We never gave eachother a title, i assumed she realized what we clearly are. But I have told her my feelings about LTRs and why they are not for me. And she said she accepted that
You sound like a prince. You expected her to read between the lines instead of spelling it out for you so she would get hot for you.
So I've been seeing this chick for a month now that I met at a nightclub. We usually just have drinks at my place and 'netflix&chill'. Our sexual chemistry is amazing but I've told her several times I'm not looking for anything serious. Yet she still texts me constantly through out the day and has even started making remarks about my activity on Snapchat and Instagram. She flipped out when I snapped in 1 of my stories a pic of me getting ice cream with 2 of my female friends. And she's always making sideway remarks about who I follow on ig and says stuff like 'wow I bet a million girls are DMing you after that pic aren't they?'
At this point..I'm not sure whether I should just go NC or just tell her straight up we are not dating and I only want sex on my terms and that were both allowed to see other people
Mate it's fine if you've been upfront and stated your intent and only want casual.... Then the cards are on the table and she knows the score and can say yay or nay ( assuming she IS 100000% cognisant with this? )
The picture comment sounds more like a compliment more than anything else.
DO NOT SAY!... " I only want sex on my turns "....... That will come across as unbelievably arrogant and probably the most off putting thing to a woman...... That's where tact comes into it mate LOL
The next time you are with her just reiterate that you are not looking for anything exclusive then she has Carte blanche and can go from there, if she is still like you describe then you'll have no choice but to end it. As Ruth says this is one of the reasons why FWB won't work for some especially when they are not on the same page
I decided to go no contact and blocked her on everything but forgot to on Snapchat. She snapped me a pic of her crying. I ignored it. Then an hour later she snapped me a bunch of xxx pics and vids. At this point I decided to put her out her misery so I unblocked her number and called her.
I told her straight up and down I am not her man and I only want sex. She said she doesn't care long as she can see me again. I told her i was serious and if she start asking for too much again were finished. So yesterday she came over we ordered food in and ****ed. She then took a cab home after no sleeping over. So far she hasn't texted me again which is nice
I now have 2 tinder dates lined up 1 for tonight and tomorrow. Things are good again
I decided to go no contact and blocked her on everything but forgot to on Snapchat. She snapped me a pic of her crying. I ignored it. Then an hour later she snapped me a bunch of xxx pics and vids. At this point I decided to put her out her misery so I unblocked her number and called her.
I told her straight up and down I am not her man and I only want sex. She said she doesn't care long as she can see me again. I told her i was serious and if she start asking for too much again were finished. So yesterday she came over we ordered food in and ****ed. She then took a cab home after no sleeping over. So far she hasn't texted me again which is nice
I now have 2 tinder dates lined up 1 for tonight and tomorrow. Things are good again
Why? He did just what is suggested as far as being honest about his motives.
She had the chance to stop seeing him.
No, he didn't. He said nothing to her, and cut off all avenues of contact. She had no idea what was going on, and let him know she was upset. Why would he completely cut her off without saying anything, without, as you say, having a talk with her and being honest about his motives? He only relented after shutting her out of his life without a word, then relenting. I can't imagine why you would see it otherwise.
Because he said in the op he already had told her several times what I quoted.
She just wasn't listening.
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