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I have a coworker who I think has crush on me. He compliments me everyday, initiates conversations, go out for lunch often and constantly checks if am going to work events or happy hours.
We(my coworker call him A , his guy friend - B and me) were at the happy hour the other day discussing about our lunch plans where A said he can't make it for lunch since he has other commitments. B jumps in and says he can join for lunch and asks me if he can take A's spot. I quite didn't get what B was trying to imply when he asked if he could take A's spot. What does he mean? Was he hinting that A likes me? Or am I reading too much into it?
I have a coworker who I think has crush on me. He compliments me everyday, initiates conversations, go out for lunch often and constantly checks if am going to work events or happy hours.
We(my coworker call him A , his guy friend - B and me) were at the happy hour the other day discussing about our lunch plans where A said he can't make it for lunch since he has other commitments. B jumps in and says he can join for lunch and asks me if he can take A's spot. I quite didn't get what B was trying to imply when he asked if he could take A's spot. What does he mean? Was he hinting that A likes me? Or am I reading too much into it?
I have a coworker who I think has crush on me. He compliments me everyday, initiates conversations, go out for lunch often and constantly checks if am going to work events or happy hours.
We(my coworker call him A , his guy friend - B and me) were at the happy hour the other day discussing about our lunch plans where A said he can't make it for lunch since he has other commitments. B jumps in and says he can join for lunch and asks me if he can take A's spot. I quite didn't get what B was trying to imply when he asked if he could take A's spot. What does he mean? Was he hinting that A likes me? Or am I reading too much into it?
Work is not the place to find dates or relationships.
This.
Also, OP, I haven't a clue what you're asking. You think A likes you, and now you're wondering if B does? Is that it? Why does it matter?
Taking A's "spot" was probably just a turn of speech. Was the discussion about lunch with you and A, or lunch with the three of you? The way you word it ("B jumps in") makes it sound like he wasn't originally invited, which makes sense in the context of "taking A's spot"-- you having someone to go to lunch with. He probably just wanted to go to lunch.
The real question is, do you want to go to lunch with someone who invites themself to places they're not invited? (And do you want to discuss exclusive activities in front of people who are not invited to said activities?) I was taught growing up that neither of those things are polite to do.
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