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Old 08-12-2016, 11:08 PM
 
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Back. Bad date.
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Old 08-13-2016, 01:33 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Back. Bad date.
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Old 08-13-2016, 07:51 AM
 
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Back. Bad date.
Sorry to hear. At least he showed up. The last guy I made a date with on Tinder sent me a text the day of the date saying that he had to cancel because he was still dating someone else (even though he would be breaking up with her really soon). This was after he had promised me that he wouldn't cancel and he had sent me a text the night before saying how excited he was to meet me.
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Old 08-13-2016, 10:18 AM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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Sorry the date went poorly and I wasn't going to post this before the date. Question though, and maybe a priggish one, but aren't you down for fairly NSA sex with shirtless guy, and yet you label men who want sex as creepy, like in your OP for this thread. It's almost like there's one set of rules for you, and another for the men you encounter?


In any case, your user name is exquisite.
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Old 08-13-2016, 11:43 AM
 
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Sorry your date didn't go well. At least you can pursue the other guy.
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Old 08-13-2016, 12:19 PM
 
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Sorry to hear. At least he showed up. The last guy I made a date with on Tinder sent me a text the day of the date saying that he had to cancel because he was still dating someone else (even though he would be breaking up with her really soon). This was after he had promised me that he wouldn't cancel and he had sent me a text the night before saying how excited he was to meet me.
Oh man, I've had a number of guys do that to me too!
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Old 08-13-2016, 12:27 PM
 
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To my surprise the guy was wealthy. He picked me up in a really nice, brand new black Jaguar with tinted windows. He came out of his car, smiled, gave me the stupid date hug and opened the door for me. He hardly said 2 words to me. Went to fill up his car with his car. He blasted music loudly and when his phone rang, he answered it. We went to the restaurant and we were told we had to wait around 15 minutes and naturally there were no seats left so we went downstairs to the lobby where he called someone to do stuff for work (I've never had a guy act like this on a date...). We went up to eat and honestly, there was so much silence. I'm an outgoing person and knew there would be no 2nd date so I figured f it and I did all the talking. He did open up slightly asking me questions but it was like pulling teeth. He also hate almost all the bread at dinner without asking if I wanted more (I had 1 tiny piece and he had the other 5 pieces wtf?) If I had to guess, we were done with dinner in maybe like 40 minutes. Almost silence back in the car, he got out of his car, gave me the stupid first date hug and that was it.

At least I ate at one of San Diego's best restaurants, didn't have to pay for it, and sat in an expensive car lol.

Once in awhile I do have first online dates with guys I could tell right away didn't like me but they at least tried to have a good time with me. This guy I think just felt obligated (I'm not going to turn down a first date at a nice restaurant but yeah typically for the first date I prefer meeting for a drink). I don't know maybe it's his background. Mod cut.

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Old 08-13-2016, 12:36 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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To my surprise the guy was wealthy. He picked me up in a really nice, brand new black Jaguar with tinted windows. He came out of his car, smiled, gave me the stupid date hug and opened the door for me. He hardly said 2 words to me. Went to fill up his car with his car. He blasted music loudly and when his phone rang, he answered it. We went to the restaurant and we were told we had to wait around 15 minutes and naturally there were no seats left so we went downstairs to the lobby where he called someone to do stuff for work (I've never had a guy act like this on a date...). We went up to eat and honestly, there was so much silence. I'm an outgoing person and knew there would be no 2nd date so I figured f it and I did all the talking. He did open up slightly asking me questions but it was like pulling teeth. He also hate almost all the bread at dinner without asking if I wanted more (I had 1 tiny piece and he had the other 5 pieces wtf?) If I had to guess, we were done with dinner in maybe like 40 minutes. Almost silence back in the car, he got out of his car, gave me the stupid first date hug and that was it.

At least I ate at one of San Diego's best restaurants, didn't have to pay for it, and sat in an expensive car lol.

Once in awhile I do have first online dates with guys I could tell right away didn't like me but they at least tried to have a good time with me. This guy I think just felt obligated (I'm not going to turn down a first date at a nice restaurant but yeah typically for the first date I prefer meeting for a drink). I don't know maybe it's his background. [Snip.]

Mod cut: reply to comment which has been deleted. The guy sounds like a turd. a 'look at how important I am that I have to do work stuff on a date' type. You dodged a bullet actually.

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