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Old 08-17-2016, 06:36 PM
 
Location: San Diego
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I have one of those. I see no reason to hide it.
Very common, looks like a mole.
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Old 08-17-2016, 06:57 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Feel around his shirt, get touchie feely, and when you are hot and heavy, lift his shirt up and lick his chest. If he freaks.....issues.
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Old 08-17-2016, 08:40 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Feel around his shirt, get touchie feely, and when you are hot and heavy, lift his shirt up and lick his chest. If he freaks.....issues.
I can't help it if I'm ticklish, Raena.
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Old 08-17-2016, 08:56 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I can't help it if I'm ticklish, Raena.
Lol, I meant if he freaks when you lift the shirt.

I know you are ticklish.
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Old 08-17-2016, 09:29 PM
 
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First, stop making this about yourself.

Obviously there is something under that shirt that bothers him.... maybe a huge scar or something.

Just sit down and ask him. I can't believe you haven't talked about this in 9 months.
Yes, or just take his shirt off for him in the dark and tell him that it does not matter you think he is perfect (or something like that).

Just like women sometimes feel pressure to look perfect men can also be insecure about their physical flaws.
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Old 08-18-2016, 07:38 AM
 
Location: SW Florida
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What I find rather humorous is that people will be intimate and have sex but there are still some things they won't talk about. I'm as guilt as a lot of others in that we are afraid to say something for fear of hurting someone's feelings or we're not sure if they will get mad.


Luckily as I get older I speak my mind more often but I still try to not hurt someone's feelings.
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Old 08-18-2016, 08:05 AM
 
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Discuss with him when you have both of you have your shirts on
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Old 08-18-2016, 08:36 AM
 
Location: God's Country
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Gynecomastia
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Old 08-18-2016, 03:25 PM
 
Location: Dallas Texas
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I have one of those. I see no reason to hide it.
This post is worthless without pictures!!
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Old 08-18-2016, 08:49 PM
 
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Okay, so... you literally described my ex to a tee.

He always wore a white spandex shirt underneath all of his shirts. It looked so uncomfortable for him. Even after he lost weight, he still wore them.

He didn't take his off for a long time either. He was very insecure because he said he has "man boobs".

Finally, he did it. He said to me, "Because I know you really love me."

After that though and being together for 4 years, he only took his shirt off during sex maybe 1 in 100 times.
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