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Old 08-19-2016, 08:41 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Okay, so... you literally described my ex to a tee.

He always wore a white spandex shirt underneath all of his shirts. It looked so uncomfortable for him. Even after he lost weight, he still wore them.

He didn't take his off for a long time either. He was very insecure because he said he has "man boobs".

Finally, he did it. He said to me, "Because I know you really love me."

After that though and being together for 4 years, he only took his shirt off during sex maybe 1 in 100 times.
Did he really HAVE man boobs or was he exaggerating?
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Old 08-19-2016, 08:44 AM
 
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Okay, so... you literally described my ex to a tee.

He always wore a white spandex shirt underneath all of his shirts. It looked so uncomfortable for him. Even after he lost weight, he still wore them.

He didn't take his off for a long time either. He was very insecure because he said he has "man boobs".

Finally, he did it. He said to me, "Because I know you really love me."

After that though and being together for 4 years, he only took his shirt off during sex maybe 1 in 100 times.
Which kind of shows that behavior doesn't really change just because someone from outside of him accepts him. It has to come from himself b
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Old 09-07-2016, 02:55 PM
 
Location: Yucaipa, California
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I find it strange that your boyfriend refuses to remove his shirt around you. It sounds like he may be hiding something from you or he is embarrassed about something like a tattoo or scar. Talk to him about this.
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Old 09-07-2016, 04:08 PM
 
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You're comparing 2 different statements I'm confused. That quote was to express how I don't think him having his shirt on during sex alters the experience physically, for me at least. But yes I want to take a shower with him. I want him to be comfortable taking his shirt off during sex to feel more intimate, not because I think it effects his performance
Ive showered before with boyfriends.. Not really into it tbh. I prefer to just shower alone.I get why it's intimate but there are plenty of other ways to be intimate. Maybe even if he had no insecurities, he might not like swimming or showering with you? You said in your first post that that bothers you about him. If showering together and swimming are very important to you, this may not be the best man for you.
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