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Old 08-26-2016, 07:17 PM
 
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Originally Posted by ratherbcrazycatlady View Post
"I'm good, I was just thinking about you. When can we get together again?"
Out of your mouth, on the phone.
No freaking way will I say that. I already put my heart out there and she basically blew my off.

 
Old 08-26-2016, 07:19 PM
 
Location: Dallas Texas
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Just send these women the link to this thread, you'll never have to worry about what to say to any of them again.
 
Old 08-26-2016, 07:21 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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No freaking way will I say that. I already put my heart out there and she basically blew my off.
Honestly, something like that is pretty much the only thing you can say at this point.

Either text her that, or more ideally, call her and say that.

Edit-You'll also more than likely know where you stand with her.
 
Old 08-26-2016, 07:23 PM
 
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No freaking way will I say that. I already put my heart out there and she basically blew my off.
She probably thinks you're the one who blew her off! She's still interested!
Now call her, while the phones still in her hand, she'll answer, hurry up before you go into this long drawn out MONKEY CIRCUS AGAIN, it's easy, nothing to lose, I promise!
 
Old 08-26-2016, 07:26 PM
 
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Just send these women the link to this thread, you'll never have to worry about what to say to any of them again.
This thread has been a free flow of thought and expression. I need something calculated and effective.
 
Old 08-26-2016, 07:40 PM
 
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Here's some dialogue between two now famous actors in my favorite teen movie:

Joseph Gordon-Levitt: She never wanted me.
Heath Ledger: Do you like the girl?
JGL: Yeah.
HL: Yeah, and is she worth all this trouble?
JGL: Well, I thought she was, but I don't know now.
HL: Well, she is or she isn't. See first of all, that other guy is not half the man you are. Secondly, don't let anyone ever make you feel like you don't deserve what you want. Go for it.

I'm younger than you, but I've been dating for way longer. I can tell you one thing: I've never (and I mean never) had a situation with a woman where there wasn't some massive BS hoops that I had to jump through to get them. If I didn't jump through the hoops, I didn't get the girl. If I did, then I did.

It's that simple. This is just a hoop. If you really want the girl, you'll have to jump through it.
 
Old 08-26-2016, 08:04 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Here's some dialogue between two now famous actors in my favorite teen movie:

Joseph Gordon-Levitt: She never wanted me.
Heath Ledger: Do you like the girl?
JGL: Yeah.
HL: Yeah, and is she worth all this trouble?
JGL: Well, I thought she was, but I don't know now.
HL: Well, she is or she isn't. See first of all, that other guy is not half the man you are. Secondly, don't let anyone ever make you feel like you don't deserve what you want. Go for it.

I'm younger than you, but I've been dating for way longer. I can tell you one thing: I've never (and I mean never) had a situation with a woman where there wasn't some massive BS hoops that I had to jump through to get them. If I didn't jump through the hoops, I didn't get the girl. If I did, then I did.

It's that simple. This is just a hoop. If you really want the girl, you'll have to jump through it.
I don't necessarily disagree, but at some point, you have to realize that enough is enough and cut your losses..lol

Also, to me, if a woman is making you jump through hoops just for a potential chance at her, then she's likely not interested in you. A woman that REALLY likes a guy wouldn't make him jump through hoops and risk losing him.

I'm also too old and have a life to have to deal with that. If she's making me jump through multiple hoops, then onto the next one.
 
Old 08-26-2016, 08:04 PM
 
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Originally Posted by ratherbcrazycatlady View Post
She probably thinks you're the one who blew her off! She's still interested!
Now call her, while the phones still in her hand, she'll answer, hurry up before you go into this long drawn out MONKEY CIRCUS AGAIN, it's easy, nothing to lose, I promise!
B.S.! We went on 4 dates then she goes silent and sends nothing but generic responses for almost 2 weeks. This girl has a serious communication problem. Either that or she's got me on the back burner while she sees other men. I know people in this thread think it's all my fault but she is not blameless in this situation. She needs to step it up if she wants me around.
 
Old 08-26-2016, 08:11 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Originally Posted by Rocky_Raccoon View Post
B.S.! We went on 4 dates then she goes silent and sends nothing but generic responses for almost 2 weeks. This girl has a serious communication problem. Either that or she's got me on the back burner while she sees other men. I know people in this thread think it's all my fault but she is not blameless in this situation. She needs to step it up if she wants me around.
She's the one with the communication problem, yet you come running here because you don't know what to do, and would rather argue with those telling you to CALL her?
 
Old 08-26-2016, 08:11 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Rocky_Raccoon View Post
B.S.! We went on 4 dates then she goes silent and sends nothing but generic responses for almost 2 weeks. This girl has a serious communication problem. Either that or she's got me on the back burner while she sees other men. I know people in this thread think it's all my fault but she is not blameless in this situation. She needs to step it up if she wants me around.
She just did 'step it up'. You're making it way too complicated...
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