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Old 08-31-2016, 03:48 PM
 
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Is there any way I can make him want me again?????
I hate being rejected!!!!!!!!!!!
This whole attitude here is a HUGE turn off, and a bigger red flag than Chinas .
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Old 08-31-2016, 05:55 PM
 
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Is there any way I can make him want me again?????
I hate being rejected!!!!!!!!!!!
If you really want to do some kind of "one last try" sort of thing then wait until Friday or Saturday night and give him a "hey I'll be at X bar with some friends if you want to stop by for a few drinks" text, and then just leave it at that. About the only way you can do it without coming off as a try hard at this point.

Of course this means you'll have to make plans with friends to go to X bar...but then that way you have fun whether he shows up or not.
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Old 08-31-2016, 06:11 PM
 
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Is your dad in your life? Was he available and caring towards you as you were growing up? Does he ever give you advice on guys?


My guess is her dad wouldn't approve of the player she's attracted probably playing multiple women at once while sending "sorry I was drunk" texts.

OP there are plenty of good guys out there, but it doesn't sound like you're attracted to them.
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Old 08-31-2016, 06:32 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Your way to invested way too early.

You don't know this guy well enough to even know if you want to date him.

Made out made him go away? I doubt it. My husband and I made out on the hood of the car on our first date. He considered that a GOOD thing. /lol

Though honestly he doesn't seem that into you. If you give off the same vibe you do here, he's probably uncomfortable.
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Old 08-31-2016, 07:58 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Is there any way I can make him want me again?????
I hate being rejected!!!!!!!!!!!
What?? Get used to being rejected, because it's normal. It just comes with the territory. Are you sure you want a guy who gets drunk and hung over, and blows off dates to want you? Why? Why are you so desperate? Is this post for real?
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Old 08-31-2016, 08:26 PM
 
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O ... M ... G!

28 and STILL SINGLE! That's SOOOO OLD! / sarc

Geez, when I was 28 I could barely deal with any sort of LTR, let alone marriage.

In retrospect, I was still not really ready when I did get married in my mid 30s. Big, big mistake. It is what it is.
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Old 09-01-2016, 08:45 AM
 
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Is your dad in your life? Was he available and caring towards you as you were growing up? Does he ever give you advice on guys?
My dad was away when I was growing up and neither... my mom or my dad ever talked to me about guys or dating.. That's why I feel like since recently I didn't know anything about men and how they think and why they do certain things. I always been so naive...
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Old 09-01-2016, 08:50 AM
 
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Your way to invested way too early.

You don't know this guy well enough to even know if you want to date him.

Made out made him go away? I doubt it. My husband and I made out on the hood of the car on our first date. He considered that a GOOD thing. /lol

Though honestly he doesn't seem that into you. If you give off the same vibe you do here, he's probably uncomfortable.
I just hate being used and I feel like because I overdid the alcohol the other night and went too far with him, now he completely lose interest. He texted me yesterday saying he wants to see me and then nothing specific. Also today he texted me good morning, but I have the feeling he's just killing time with me and just checking if I'm still here.
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Old 09-01-2016, 08:51 AM
 
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My guess is her dad wouldn't approve of the player she's attracted probably playing multiple women at once while sending "sorry I was drunk" texts.

OP there are plenty of good guys out there, but it doesn't sound like you're attracted to them.
The most weird thing to me is that he's 34 and he said he wants to have kids and family when he gets to know someone, but his behaviour says: Heyyyy, you still there? Ok.. good!
I hate being used.
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Old 09-01-2016, 08:52 AM
 
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This whole attitude here is a HUGE turn off, and a bigger red flag than Chinas .
Maybe is, but I don't tell him that, plus I just wanna see if I can have him just to proove myself and show him he can't have me like the other girls he had before.
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