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Old 09-06-2016, 02:43 PM
 
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It's hard to tell who those guys are until they've done everything they can to improve themselves. It's not like you can just pick out a guy who is fat and out of shape, who lives in his mother's basement, doesn't have a job or education, doesn't know how to dress, and doesn't have any friends and know that if he fixes all those things he will still not be attractive to women.

It would be good if you could tell those guys in advance, but unless they have everything going for them and are still repulsive to women, you can't really tell what the problem is for sure in advance.
What has helped me is avoiding women as much as possible and concentrating on my hobbies, one bad thing that could happen from letting some men know that they aren't good enough is it could make those men not care what happens to women at all.
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Old 09-06-2016, 02:45 PM
 
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my bad duplicate.
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Old 09-06-2016, 02:51 PM
 
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What has helped me is avoiding women as much as possible and concentrating on my hobbies, one bad thing that could happen from letting some men know that they aren't good enough is it could make those men not care what happens to women at all.
They don't need to care what happens to women. They can just mind their own business and live their own lives and be fulfilled without women in their lives.

I think it's high time that a lot of guys finally figure out that they are not meant to be with women. It would save them a lot of frustration and repeated failures. Many species are like this in which the genetically inferior males never mate with females.
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Old 09-06-2016, 03:04 PM
 
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They don't need to care what happens to women. They can just mind their own business and live their own lives and be fulfilled without women in their lives.

I think it's high time that a lot of guys finally figure out that they are not meant to be with women. It would save them a lot of frustration and repeated failures. Many species are like this in which the genetically inferior males never mate with females.
You're right but in those species the inferior males aren't forced to support a society that see's them as inferior. Men can't even have male only spaces not even the inferior men.
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Old 09-06-2016, 03:08 PM
 
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You're right but in those species the inferior males aren't forced to support a society that see's them as inferior.
Both males and females have things that are not "fair" to them. That's just part of life. Part of improving oneself is to be able to navigate the things that aren't fair in effective manners.
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Old 09-06-2016, 03:08 PM
 
Location: Pflugerville, Texas
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They don't need to care what happens to women. They can just mind their own business and live their own lives and be fulfilled without women in their lives.

I think it's high time that a lot of guys finally figure out that they are not meant to be with women. It would save them a lot of frustration and repeated failures. Many species are like this in which the genetically inferior males never mate with females.
Totally agree. Goes both ways. Some people are not meant to be partnered at all. The desire can still be there, but we are not all destined for romantic relationships. Some people have a different set of duties and agendas in life and are not going to be good partners. If we all only knew in advance...
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Old 09-06-2016, 03:09 PM
 
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Men can't even have male only spaces not even the inferior men.
Any man can start a space that is "man-only".
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Old 09-06-2016, 03:12 PM
 
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Both males and females have things that are not "fair" to them. That's just part of life. Part of improving oneself is to be able to navigate the things that aren't fair in effective manners.
That's not improving that is called do things you don't want to because you don't have a choice.
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Old 09-06-2016, 03:19 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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That's not improving that is called do things you don't want to because you don't have a choice.
Or simply just using what you've got and don't worry about what you've not got

Most people if not all have at least one strength or trait about themselves and they put that to good use
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Old 09-06-2016, 04:10 PM
 
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That's not improving that is called do things you don't want to because you don't have a choice.
That's part of what improving yourself. It's about navigating things more effectively when you don't have much choice to enable yourself to have more choices.
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