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This idea my be a clue as to why you're having trouble getting dates.
I'm not having trouble getting dates. I'm having trouble navigating the standards of communication within OLD. I've only been OLD for a little over 3 months. I've enjoyed some really nice dates. I even went on one Friday night that was a lot of fun and I may see her again. But my experience so far has been 97% worthless communication and 3% effective communication.
You told me I masturbated in front of the computer. I'm just trying to figure out how you could possibly know that. Did you hack my webcam or something?
Do you have autism? I only ask because based on your posts here you are taking things far far too literally.
I've thought this before but I'm thinking it 3 times as much today. Doesn't anybody take time to read what's written or is comprehension that difficult?
Even though I've further explained some things, it's as if that first post is the only one on here.
Has anybody the patience or interest in an example?
I'll take the time and ask for some opinions. Maybe then you'll get it.
You said you brought this up to help women who feel they keep getting used,to stop getting used.
I said the results you personally gave us of your own dating life using this method have been: ignored, or used for sex.
I said this would seem to indicate this is *not* proof that this "method" will help women avoid getting used.
Well then go and have an LTR with yourself, I'm looking for chemistry with another person, that MAY lead to an LTR.
Why is it so important for you to try and correct someone without thinking about what they're saying...
But if you're not on the same page with the other person then you're setting yourself up for disappointment. If you're looking for an LTR and he's looking for a hookup, well, there's a pretty clear disconnect in place even before you meet irl. So why even meet?
No. My therapist has labeled me as codependent and diagnosed me with generalized anxiety disorder. No autism here.
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