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Old 09-14-2016, 02:07 PM
 
Location: San Diego
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On a date, men hope to have sex. Women decide if they want to have sex.

 
Old 09-14-2016, 02:09 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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He's engaged? I'm happy for him.
He most certainly is mate

yeah it's terrific news, I'm made up for him

Last edited by Londoncowboy30; 09-14-2016 at 02:22 PM..
 
Old 09-14-2016, 03:18 PM
 
Location: middle of everywhere
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Don't become exclusive (cutting off other possibilities, turning down dates) with a man until you both have clearly discussed being exclusive with each other and a relationship is imminent.
 
Old 09-14-2016, 03:19 PM
 
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The advice I give my daughter?

If he doesn't make you feel secure and good about yourself, then don't date him. He has to respect you before anything else.

If he doesn't want to hang with your friends and your family on occasion or -- even worse -- isolates you from friends and family, you have an abuser on your hands. And if he calls you a name or touches you in anyway that isn't loving, walk away immediately. Somehow, I've managed to be married for 25 years to my wife without ever calling her any name whatsoever.

He's on his best advice when you are first dating. If he's an ahole then, it only gets worse from there.

Pay attention to how he treats the waiter. Because in six months, that's how he'll be treating you.
 
Old 09-14-2016, 03:24 PM
 
Location: Florida
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If only makes you smile, go ahead . If it hurts or makes you feel bad or question yourself , don't.
 
Old 09-14-2016, 03:24 PM
 
Location: I can be anywhere...
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The "middle way" is best - you can't be a perfectionist but you need to know your dealbreakers and what you can live with because:
That was basically what I meant, when I was talking about settling. Not being a perfectionist, but knowing your dealbreakers all the same.
 
Old 09-14-2016, 03:33 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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Enjoy the whole journey, instead of just focusing on the destination.

This is good!
 
Old 09-14-2016, 04:00 PM
 
Location: Dallas Texas
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Don't be lazy and don't take the other for granted.
 
Old 09-14-2016, 04:08 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Don't Make A Guy Your Priority When You're Only 1 of his Options
 
Old 09-14-2016, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Stop assuming men have a problem if they reject you, stop assuming men are intimidated by you if they reject you. Most of the time they just don't like you.
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