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Old 09-14-2016, 04:38 PM
 
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A guy that interested in sleeping with me told me this when I asked him why he was attracted to me

" I think you have very attractive features, I think you carry yourself well with a lot of confidence, and the two combined I find very sexy".

What does this mean? To me, it doesn't sound like the normal, sleazy lines I've heard before. Thoughts?
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Old 09-14-2016, 04:40 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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"What does it mean?" It means what it says. It's pretty clear.
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Old 09-14-2016, 04:41 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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He likes your features, and the way you carry yourself. Sometimes we find someone who is attractive, but figured d that the way they act, carry themselves or some other factor is off. So he finds your whole combination appealing, nothing strange or difficult about that.
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Old 09-14-2016, 04:44 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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It seems pretty straightforward to me. He thinks you're attractive and likes your confidence. The combination of the two makes you sexy in his eyes. Is that really unusual?
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Old 09-14-2016, 04:46 PM
 
Location: Texas
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A guy that interested in sleeping with me told me this when I asked him why he was attracted to me

" I think you have very attractive features, I think you carry yourself well with a lot of confidence, and the two combined I find very sexy".

What does this mean? To me, it doesn't sound like the normal, sleazy lines I've heard before. Thoughts?
Uh, that's pretty much what every guy who wants to sleep with you thinks...you're impressed bc this dude was more articulate? I don't understand.
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Old 09-14-2016, 04:46 PM
 
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I know it's pretty straightforward, but I guess I just think all men are liars and he's just buttering me up. But if he was buttering me up, perhaps it would be been over the top.

That's the problem when someone lies to you, you think everyone else lies too
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Old 09-14-2016, 05:06 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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A guy that interested in sleeping with me told me this when I asked him why he was attracted to me

" I think you have very attractive features, I think you carry yourself well with a lot of confidence, and the two combined I find very sexy".

What does this mean? To me, it doesn't sound like the normal, sleazy lines I've heard before. Thoughts?
It means his credit rating is good...... LOL!.

Seriously though has he blatantly just come out and said he's " interested in sleeping with you "? ( the way you worded it .... Sounds different to the usual " oh this guy fancies me " or " this guy finds me attractive " ).

No it doesn't appear or come across as a sleazy line in my opinion... If he focused more on your physical attributes or other classic lines for example then I'd be inclined to think that was more sleazy but not this as such as it seems more personal and deeper .

But it's hard to tell sitting here if honest.
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Old 09-14-2016, 05:16 PM
 
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I know it's pretty straightforward, but I guess I just think all men are liars and he's just buttering me up. But if he was buttering me up, perhaps it would be been over the top.

That's the problem when someone lies to you, you think everyone else lies too
How is he lying? He wants to sleep with you. Do you think guys want to have sex with women they don't find attractive?
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Old 09-14-2016, 05:21 PM
 
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BTW, what do other guys that want to sleep with you say that seems sleazy compared to this guy when you ask them why they find you attractive?
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Old 09-14-2016, 05:29 PM
 
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He thinks you are attractive and he wants to sleep with you. Which part do you think is a lie? Why is either such an outlandish thing for him to say?
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