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Old 09-20-2016, 09:05 PM
 
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OP, the answer to your question is: Yes, a submissive guy has a chance with some women.
HOWEVER:

the answer to the question "Does a submissive and shy guy have a chance with women" is very different.


What are you going to do about it?

 
Old 09-21-2016, 10:39 AM
 
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I feel like this is my main fault when it comes to women. I am a submissive male. I am super passive and like being told what to do and I absolutely hate having to make decisions. I have above average looks, but I wouldn't call myself hot. I make pretty good money for my age ($50k/year) and am really happy with my career path. I am a nice guy basically. I think most women want a man who resembles their father though i.e. aggressive, dominant, leader type qualities. These are kind of the opposite of me. I am a follower not a leader. I don't mind being this way and am completely content with who I am, but it seems to be a huge barrier in dating which is something I'd really like to take part of. I would like kids and a family of my own at some point and it's really stressing me out, because I've never had a girlfriend. I see men who are uglier than me with no job and they do well with women because of their "alpha" personalities. Are there girls who wouldn't mind a sweet guy? It's not like I'm a pushover. I just genuinely like being told what to do, because it's easier for me and I'm really easy going.
wow you became very financially stable very young
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