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I feel like this is my main fault when it comes to women. I am a submissive male. I am super passive and like being told what to do and I absolutely hate having to make decisions. I have above average looks, but I wouldn't call myself hot. I make pretty good money for my age ($50k/year) and am really happy with my career path. I am a nice guy basically. I think most women want a man who resembles their father though i.e. aggressive, dominant, leader type qualities. These are kind of the opposite of me. I am a follower not a leader. I don't mind being this way and am completely content with who I am, but it seems to be a huge barrier in dating which is something I'd really like to take part of. I would like kids and a family of my own at some point and it's really stressing me out, because I've never had a girlfriend. I see men who are uglier than me with no job and they do well with women because of their "alpha" personalities. Are there girls who wouldn't mind a sweet guy? It's not like I'm a pushover. I just genuinely like being told what to do, because it's easier for me and I'm really easy going.