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I really do love her, she is like my twin almost. I hate long distance relationships, and relationships in general, but Im doing it with her because I never met anyone who is like her! Im afraid if I let her go then I will never meet someone like that ever again, sounds cliche, but she's really one in a billion for me. But the distance is killing me, we can only see each other every few months and thats why I end up having to do things behind her back
She probably only seems that amazing because you DON'T have to do the "real life" thing with her.
I can be everything you could ever dream of from a distance too. In real life I'm a handful; NOT an easy ride.
If you're in a long distance relationship and you're doing things behind her back, is it still considered cheating? Can the distance be sort of a "free pass" to have a bit "extra" on the side?
If it's an exclusive relationship then no of course.
Incidentally...... Is it ok for her to do things behind YOUR back, have a free pass and have a bit on the side?
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If you need to smash that bad, don't be in a long-distance relationship. Talk to her to see if she'd be cool with doing non-exclusive or end the relationship.
If you're in a long distance relationship and you're doing things behind her back, is it still considered cheating? Can the distance be sort of a "free pass" to have a bit "extra" on the side?
It depends. Have the two of you agreed you can each have a "free pass"? If so, it is fine. If not, it is cheating.
She's conservative, so its different, obviously shes not going to be okay with an open relationship. I tried bringing it up and then she told me she's not into that and just wants to be exclusive
I really do love her, she is like my twin almost. I hate long distance relationships, and relationships in general, but Im doing it with her because I never met anyone who is like her! Im afraid if I let her go then I will never meet someone like that ever again, sounds cliche, but she's really one in a billion for me. But the distance is killing me, we can only see each other every few months and thats why I end up having to do things behind her back
If she hasn't agreed to the two of you seeing others, then you are doing your "one in a billion girl" wrong. So, she isn't really that for you, is she? if she were, you wouldn't be going behind her back.
Break up with her so she can find someone that will treat her better.
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