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Her bf supports her and her son financially while she sits at home, unemployed and broke but expects more of him. I don't understand why you question his sincerity and character?
My son's father was great and treated me great actually. Things just didn't work out cuz he was obsessive. Other guys were unfaithful and not so good.
I am assuming that your son's father is paying child support. So your BF really is not supporting your son, you and his father are doing that.
If you want more spending money can you think of ways to make extra money?
Since you are home most weekend nights anyway why not try to get some babysitting jobs. Perhaps, some friends or neighbors will pay you to care for their child/children. After a few times you will have plenty of money for a great night out with your BF (and to pay for a babysitter for your son).
Her bf supports her and her son financially while she sits at home, unemployed and broke but expects more of him. I don't understand why you question his sincerity and character?
I'm not questioning his character. He sounds like a great guy.
If she has a history of choosing not so great guys (which seems like she has), she is probably going to start feeling very uncomfortable when she is with an actual great guy.
After reading her other thread, it looks like I am right. The BF is either a jerk (according to her other thread, he might be one) or she has to sabotage any relationship with a guy who is not a jerk.
She is definitely the problem here.
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