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Old 10-06-2016, 08:54 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Yes I did. It was in a context of a joke since he had I would always see each other when walking our dogs. I realize CD would never approve what I wrote to him lol.
okay, I think I get it. Thanks for clarifying.
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Old 10-06-2016, 08:56 AM
 
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See? Now had you written your note beforehand, as you were advised, you probably would've been his gf now.

Better late than never, so good going.
True, true. I would never have had the guts to have done that while living in the same complex as someone though.
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Old 10-06-2016, 08:58 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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10 days too late, eh....I doubt, he has a girlfriend.
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Old 10-06-2016, 09:04 AM
 
Location: Middle Earth
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Sounds like someone who's not that interested and just looking for a short texting buddy. Props to you for having the guts to do what you did.
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Old 10-06-2016, 09:15 AM
 
Location: God's Country
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I call shenanigans.

Shenanigans indeed in this day and age when everyone's complaining about sexual harassment for any type of approach, but quite common say mid-1960s thru the 1970s as I recall -- minus the texting devices of course.
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Old 10-06-2016, 09:46 AM
 
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I'm an offbeat kind of girl hence why I'm usually single.
Good job! He didn't think you were 'creepy AF' or he wouldn't have answered
When one is 'offbeat' they usually know there are some that may not like that, and it's a good way to weed 'em out. Why pretend to be normal to attract one who isn't going to get you, right?

And hey!: At least he's the kind of guy who tells you he has a gf...
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Old 10-06-2016, 10:08 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Don't sweat it.. Plenty of guys "in relationships" still text, flirt, and bang other chicks on the side lol
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Old 10-06-2016, 10:40 AM
 
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Good job! He didn't think you were 'creepy AF' or he wouldn't have answered
When one is 'offbeat' they usually know there are some that may not like that, and it's a good way to weed 'em out. Why pretend to be normal to attract one who isn't going to get you, right?

And hey!: At least he's the kind of guy who tells you he has a gf...
No.

He thought "here's some person who "worships me" and whatever else the OP offered up yet couldn't include due to CD rules...

Anyway, "I have a girlfriend of 10 days" = no thanks.


If any of this is true, which I doubt.
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Old 10-06-2016, 10:41 AM
 
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Don't sweat it.. Plenty of guys "in relationships" still text, flirt, and bang other chicks on the side lol
Yeah we know. That's part of the problem in our culture. If he's taken he should be honest, and she should move on to someone else. This is the natural order of things. The prevalence of "on the side" action is what messes up the M/F balance.
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Old 10-06-2016, 10:46 AM
 
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No.

He thought "here's some person who "worships me" and whatever else the OP offered up yet couldn't include due to CD rules hence answering vaguely...

Anyway, "I have a girlfriend of 10 days" = no thanks.


If any of this is true, which I doubt.
Ok! I'm not entitled to my own opinion, and guys always encourage a girl by responding to her, because he they think she's "creepy AF" as you put it. Thanks for the correction, it's a whole new way of looking at things for me, after years of being logical
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