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Old 10-07-2016, 08:22 AM
 
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Nope.



Seriously? So throwing yourself at people & basically offering yourself up to strangers is helping you how?
I could care less about being seen as desperate or not. I just want to see that body upfront, upclose.
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Old 10-07-2016, 08:31 AM
 
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I was waiting for him to ask for a picture but he never did. I agree that while he showed a little interest he was more interested in me being interested in him. He didn't ask me anything about myself. It was strictly about the letter. While I would love one day to hear back from him, I really doubt it.
I would bet this guy gets a lot more women hitting on him thatj most people realize.
Some people have this idea that women don't usually approach men.
IME, guys like this receice as much attention if not more attention, from women than some women receive attention from men.
I would guess he is standoffish because the reality is, although he may have never received a letter like the one you wrote, he has been alproached for only sex in the past, and he literally doesnt have to work for it. I have had friends like this, and in order to get with a guy like that, you needto be your absolute best, due to the fact you have more competition than you realize.

Until you realize this guy and guys like him actually turn man/woman relations upside down, it will be hard to get his attention.
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Old 10-07-2016, 09:06 AM
 
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I would bet this guy gets a lot more women hitting on him thatj most people realize.
Some people have this idea that women don't usually approach men.
IME, guys like this receice as much attention if not more attention, from women than some women receive attention from men.
I would guess he is standoffish because the reality is, although he may have never received a letter like the one you wrote, he has been alproached for only sex in the past, and he literally doesnt have to work for it. I have had friends like this, and in order to get with a guy like that, you needto be your absolute best, due to the fact you have more competition than you realize.

Until you realize this guy and guys like him actually turn man/woman relations upside down, it will be hard to get his attention.
I think that too. I'm not texting him anymore despite me wanting to text him something dirty i would want to do to him. I imagine this guy gets so much girls that his dance card is very full.
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Old 10-07-2016, 09:31 AM
 
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That was it. I'm just happy I did it. I honestly would have preferred him not contacting me since he has a gf but i guess he felt it was the nice way of rejecting me.

You would have preferred him not contacting you since he has a girlfriend?

I presume that if this were truly true, then we'd be reading a thread about your note and you asking for us to give opinions as to why he didn't reply.

He has a girlfriend. Even if you perceived he was flirting w
You, it is meaningless. Move on.
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Old 10-07-2016, 09:46 AM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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I could care less about being seen as desperate or not. I just want to see that body upfront, upclose.
You do your thing, but we all see bodies every day that we'd like to see "upfront, upclose", and yet we manage to keep it together.
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Old 10-07-2016, 09:49 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I think that too. I'm not texting him anymore despite me wanting to text him something dirty i would want to do to him. I imagine this guy gets so much girls that his dance card is very full.
To resist the temptation, I would delete his number. Therefore, you cannot do something stupid after you had a few beers with Lamar.




If he dumps the gf and is interested, he will let you know.
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Old 10-07-2016, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Dallas Texas
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I could care less about being seen as desperate or not. I just want to see that body upfront, upclose.
I actually like your aggressiveness. Most people are on here whining about being lonely or no S.O...when they don't have the balls or proverbial balls to actually talk to another human being they are interested in.
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Old 10-07-2016, 10:30 AM
 
Location: Sacramento, Ca
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At least you got to say what you wanted, and the message was received. You never know if you don't ask.
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Old 10-07-2016, 10:57 AM
 
Location: Middle Earth
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I could care less about being seen as desperate or not. I just want to see that body upfront, upclose.
LOL OP. I had a crush on one of my neighbors too, and didn't care who he was. I just wanted to see that naked body as well (he was a fitness model). I'm glad I'm over him now and have actually met someone even more gorgeous outside and inside. More importantly, this one's actually really into me and had noticed me first. I'm actually still in disbelief that our paths crossed.
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Old 10-07-2016, 07:09 PM
 
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I actually like your aggressiveness. Most people are on here whining about being lonely or no S.O...when they don't have the balls or proverbial balls to actually talk to another human being they are interested in.
LOL. I would rather have done what I did that not done anything at all. I consider myself a bold person.
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