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We broke up last week and a few days ago she suddenly came to my place crying, we barely talked because she was crying a lot and we didn't make any decision that day. Two days after I told her we should talk and it was better to talk in a restaurant, we went there and talked about the reasons why we broke up like my jealousy that made us fighting a lot for over a year, I don't trust her, her being bipolar and hot and cold with me, that she wanted children and get married and I wasn't ready,etc.
Anyway we had a great talk but we had our disagreements, we had our dinner and after that we came to my place to talk more but I thought to myself "Maybe we should sleep, I'm tired, she's a little drunk, tomorrow we can talk again!" And we did it, but instead of just sleep we had an amazing sex and now I don't know what to do because we're together again!
Should I try again? I'm feeling so confused right now! I'm feeling confused because nothing will change. It doesn't matter, we broke up, we got back together, I said I would change, she said she would change but that's not what happen, it just never does! People never change, it doesn't matter!
It sounds like you know what you want and what you don't want. She says she wants to get married and wants children and you don't. Her clock is ticking and it will be a matter of time before the alarm goes off.
You also mentioned your "jealousy" and lack of trust. To be honest, you need time to "find yourself" and be single for a while before getting into another relationship. You need to build up your confidence so that you won't have trust issues. I'm speaking from experience so I hope you don't feel like I am belittling you.
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