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Old 10-21-2016, 05:18 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I have considered doing just this... Or my dog who loves me deeply.
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Brilliant!


You deserve a gorgeous ring
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Old 10-21-2016, 05:31 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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All very thoughtful responses and interesting point of views.

The way she said it really stuck out to me and gave me some insight as to how much value she places in relationships. When she told me that she knew deep down that SHE didn't want to be alone, I kind of understood why she would say the things she did. When I think about it, relationships like many other things just seem like a random part of life. I don't think they're essential nor insignificant. Either you have them or you don't. It just kind reinforces my belief that there are infinite paths in this life. And there is no one right way to live.

You just live how you want. If you're not hurting yourself or others, there is no problem.
You see, that's what I don't get. How can she know what's best for her niece? Maybe her niece is perfectly content and happy being single.

It's like if somebody isn't in a relationship, then they must either be on the move for one, and/or not truly happy.
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Old 10-22-2016, 01:58 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Pornhub, Lol.
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It comes in handy, eh?
What you guys say just rubs me the wrong way.
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Old 10-22-2016, 03:34 PM
 
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What you guys say just rubs me the wrong way.
Lol. Give it time.
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Old 10-22-2016, 03:53 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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You see, that's what I don't get. How can she know what's best for her niece? Maybe her niece is perfectly content and happy being single.

It's like if somebody isn't in a relationship, then they must either be on the move for one, and/or not truly happy.
No my classmate was saying that about herself....not her niece. Haha.

I don't think it's impossible to live a happy life outside the "norm" either. If there's anything bad about it, it's when people try to push their own experiences and view onto you.

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Old 10-22-2016, 04:36 PM
 
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Well, I would say a person who is adaptable is a good thing!

Yeah, when you get comfortable and don't want to flex a bit... Let's say letting someone into your comfy zone then it's gunna be tough.
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