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Old 10-22-2016, 09:12 AM
 
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Um....

She just got out of a bad relationship?

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Old 10-22-2016, 09:32 AM
 
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She is saying back off. It ain't happening. Not interested.
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Old 10-22-2016, 10:03 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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She is saying back off. It ain't happening. Not interested.
This. Also, she is telling you to RUN!
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Old 10-22-2016, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Florida
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It's something to let you know she may be bringing along some of that 'baggage' everybody says they don't want to have to be loaded up with..
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Old 10-22-2016, 10:18 AM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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It means the relationship is still fresh on her mind.

There is a possibility she could go back to him or be available to the right guy.
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Old 10-22-2016, 12:26 PM
 
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She may be vulnerable and could use a friend. Not necessarily looking for a partner or a fwb. Also could be a nice way of her saying she's not that into you.
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Old 10-22-2016, 01:55 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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When women say that they just got out of a bad relationship, what are they really saying?
Leave me alone, I'm not interested.
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Old 10-22-2016, 02:12 PM
 
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It depends on the context it is spoken within..

This statement can be taken many ways depending on why and who is saying it, but if someone is telling you about their "bad" experiences only one thing is constant...they desire whatever their idea of a "good one" is.

....it just maybe is not with you or a warning that they themselves know they are not ready to be a good partner in return.

Context is key, not the verbiage itself.
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Old 10-22-2016, 05:11 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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She is saying back off. It ain't happening. Not interested.
They might add something like "I'm not into another relationship right now", or "I need time to heal".
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Old 10-22-2016, 05:46 PM
 
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I'll admit to having used that line before, but it was the truth......I honestly had just gotten out of a "bad" relationship.
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