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No I don't, as I said I was making sure all grounds are covered. I'm extremely guarded
Then you're really not in a good place to be dating.
You're just going to push everyone away.
A person can tell you all day long they are with you and only you until they are blue in the face but if your trust issues run that deep, you're not going to believe them. Nobody is going to want to put up with that. There is one REAL certainty in this life....and that's death.
Then you're really not in a good place to be dating.
You're just going to push everyone away.
A person can tell you all day long they are with you and only you until they are blue in the face but if your trust issues run that deep, you're not going to believe them. Nobody is going to want to put up with that. There is one REAL certainty in this life....and that's death.
And I'm aware of this....my trust issues have hard wired themselves into my thinking processes, same with my view of myself image....I have moments where I look good, most of the time I feel like I'm ugly....even though girls will tell me the opposite until they are blue in the face, I just dont believe it
Im going to stop because this thread is not about me and I'm not trying to make it that way smh
As far as the OP - just live your life and don't be so worried about the what ifs of a possible relationship. Just date and have fun and see where that takes you. There are no guarantees in life.
Kind of far fetched for something that was done on the spur of the moment unless you believe she carries a burner phone around " just in case" someone trys something like that. SMH.
Were I her... the only contact that I'd delete would be HIS.
I don't believe the story anyway... What woman is going to put up with that level of mistrust? That would be a giant red flag to me and an immediate deal breaker..... especially if it came " out of the blue" as in the posted scenario.
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In all honesty, loved and lost does not sound better than never at all to me. At least with never at all you never go through the trauma of the loss.
You also never have the joy of the love. There is nothing better. I'd definitely take having those feelings of love even knowing they will almost always have an end. Not even debatable.
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