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... and when I say friend, it's actually my friend, not me. LOL
Anyways, my friend called me up earlier today and it sounds like he was going to break out into tears. He told me that this girl that he was "dating", Josie, wasn't being completely honest with him.
Apparently, she had this guy sleeping on her couch for a week and "failed to mention" it to my friend. (But she lives with her parents) My friend heard this from the grapevine and straight up exploded on her! She replied "I can see you friday to explain what is going on!" Then after a heated debate, she said that "they weren't dating."
I don't know about you guys, but I wouldn't need to take two days to sit down and explain what is going on. And my friend was extremely hurt that she said that they weren't dating even though he emotionally invested 4 months with her. In addition, she never picks up the phone to call him or text him or never takes the iniative to make plans together.
I told him that he needs to drop her NOW. She's not into him and she needs to kick rocks. I was skeptical since she was 23 and recently divorced and he is 30 and never married. I told him in the beginning that she may want her freedom and "party"; not to be tied down with someone, but he went ahead and pursued her anyways.
I know he's a good guy and has a good heart and I feel bad for him. As of right now, he still doesn't know who this guy is, how he knows her, or how long he is going to be there. I told him to let her go or maybe pursue a FWB type of deal with her. (or even dog her) At any rate, feel free to comment on the situation if you want to.
What made him think they were dating? It doesn't sound like there was ever a relationship there so her personal life doesn't concern him. He seems immature.
They are not dating according to her. There isn't anything there for him leave.
Why does he think they were dating, and not her? That's a pretty big miscommunication.
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According to him, he asked her if they were official and she replied "yes!" I don't know the great details of their relationship but i find it kinda odd that she "agrees" to make it official to only throw back in his face that they weren't dating. She probably said "yes" without being emotionally invested.
I remember you told me you once knew a male co-worker in your early 30s who had never kissed a girl before, this doesn't sound like him but this post reminds me of when you told me that
I remember you told me you once knew a male co-worker in your early 30s who had never kissed a girl before, this doesn't sound like him but this post reminds me of when you told me that
I cannot recall which person you were referring to. Are you sure that it wasn't 49erfan27?
Your friend needs to drop her (as in ZERO contact, friends or former flame) and don't even think about looking back.
I gave him that advice. (or play her but he doesn't have the heart to do so) She may be a decent person but I don't think she's in a position to committ to someone and she's not into him. I want to hook him up but he doesn't want any baby mama's.
I cannot recall which person you were referring to. Are you sure that it wasn't 49erfan27?
That confuses me all the time. One of you two needs to root for the Raiders.
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I want to hook him up but he doesn't want any baby mama's.
