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my BF called his ex wife "my wife" during an argument with me.. he corrected himself and agreed it was wrong to say but insists it was just a slip of the tongue. they were married 15 years, divorced for 1 but separated for 3
ill add some details later but just wanted to get some feedback on this "slip up" is this normal? a sign of something i should really be concerned about?
have you ever done it? does it mean that he loves her, thinks of her? misses her? cant let go of their marriage deep down?
thank you
Have only read this OP:
Yes I've done it by accident, nope it doesn't mean anything and yes it's probably quite a common slip of the tongue. Consider the 15 years and us men often being creatures of habit....
I think that ship has sailed; you should have asked that question before you got with him while the divorce was ongoing.
What I was thinking exactly.
He corrected himself. What else do you want OP? Her to be erased from memory? They have a child together. This is a really small thing you are making a big deal about.
I've called my current husband my ex's name before, (when he was irritating me and that's all I can remember of my ex). We all survived.
my BF called his ex wife "my wife" during an argument with me.. he corrected himself and agreed it was wrong to say but insists it was just a slip of the tongue. they were married 15 years, divorced for 1 but separated for 3
ill add some details later but just wanted to get some feedback on this "slip up" is this normal? a sign of something i should really be concerned about?
have you ever done it? does it mean that he loves her, thinks of her? misses her? cant let go of their marriage deep down?
thank you
It's a slip up. Christ. He's been married for 15 years. It doesn't mean anything
I've been married for 20 some. I don't even know my wife's name anymore. It's just my wife whe referring to her in conversation. And it's Pumpkin when I talk to her. Sometimes o tell her to change her name legally to Pumpkin. Be easier on me.
my BF called his ex wife "my wife" during an argument with me.. he corrected himself and agreed it was wrong to say but insists it was just a slip of the tongue. they were married 15 years, divorced for 1 but separated for 3
ill add some details later but just wanted to get some feedback on this "slip up" is this normal? a sign of something i should really be concerned about?
have you ever done it? does it mean that he loves her, thinks of her? misses her? cant let go of their marriage deep down?
thank you
Oh good grief. It's completely normal. Forget about it!!
I'm not. I love him so much and I'm so hurt by this. I just feel that it's possible that it has some huge meaning that I don't want to ignore.. I have ignored things with other relationships in the past, stupidly
It has nothing to do with you. You cannot erase a person's memory. Grow up and get over it.
Well, he was either an idiot or being malicious.. Intention is what matters most.
Not at all. I have caught myself saying my ex's name in place of a BF's,many many times, and using the words "husband" too. Sheesh people. It means NOTHING.
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It's completely normal. Forget about it!!
