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Old 11-21-2016, 05:07 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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So in general you two only hang out (two words, not one) on weekends because of your schedules?

You've been dating for over a year. It sounds like you need to calm down about the Sunday issue.

If this is an ongoing problem for you, perhaps you need to decide if you want to continue dating him. Walking on eggshells and feeling that your relationship is unbalanced usually means you are a mismatch. You might need to move on.

Give the situation a few weeks to settle out, then have an adult conversation about your needs.
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Old 11-21-2016, 05:14 AM
 
Location: Cincinnati near
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This excerpt from a well respected marital therapy website might help sum it up:

HER SIDE OF THE STORY
He was in an odd mood when I got to the bar, I thought it might have been my fault because I was a bit late but he didn't say anything much about it.
The conversation was quite slow going so I thought we should go off somewhere more intimate so we could talk more privately. We went to this restaurant and he was STILL acting a bit funny. I tried to cheer him up and started to wonder whether it was me or something else. I asked him, and he said no. But I wasn't really sure.
So anyway, in the cab on the way back to his house, I said that I love him and he just put his arm around me. I didn't know what the hell that meant because you know he doesn't say it back or anything. We finally got back to his place and I was wondering if he was going to dump me! So I tried to ask him about it but he just switched on the TV. Reluctantly, I said I was going to go to sleep. Then after about 10 minutes, he joined me and we had sex.
But, he still seemed really distracted, so afterwards I just wanted to leave but I just cried myself to sleep. I dunno, I just don't know what he thinks anymore. I mean, do you think he's met someone else???

HIS SIDE OF THE STORY

My team lost. Felt Kinda Tired. Got laid though.
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Old 11-21-2016, 05:33 AM
 
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This excerpt from a well respected marital therapy website might help sum it up:

HER SIDE OF THE STORY
He was in an odd mood when I got to the bar, I thought it might have been my fault because I was a bit late but he didn't say anything much about it.
The conversation was quite slow going so I thought we should go off somewhere more intimate so we could talk more privately. We went to this restaurant and he was STILL acting a bit funny. I tried to cheer him up and started to wonder whether it was me or something else. I asked him, and he said no. But I wasn't really sure.
So anyway, in the cab on the way back to his house, I said that I love him and he just put his arm around me. I didn't know what the hell that meant because you know he doesn't say it back or anything. We finally got back to his place and I was wondering if he was going to dump me! So I tried to ask him about it but he just switched on the TV. Reluctantly, I said I was going to go to sleep. Then after about 10 minutes, he joined me and we had sex.
But, he still seemed really distracted, so afterwards I just wanted to leave but I just cried myself to sleep. I dunno, I just don't know what he thinks anymore. I mean, do you think he's met someone else???

HIS SIDE OF THE STORY

My team lost. Felt Kinda Tired. Got laid though.
Yep! That's about right.

Or the, "What's wrong? What's wrong? You seem in a bad mood, whats wrong?"

Ugh!
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Old 11-21-2016, 07:14 AM
 
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Sounds like just a casual relationship to me, on his side.
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