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Old 11-28-2016, 09:57 AM
 
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I've been seeing this girl that I want to break up with. She was a wedding coming up on the weekend that I am going to with her. Should I wait until after the wedding so she doesn't have to go alone?
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Old 11-28-2016, 10:17 AM
 
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I've been seeing this girl that I want to break up with. She was a wedding coming up on the weekend that I am going to with her. Should I wait until after the wedding so she doesn't have to go alone?
If the situation was reversed, would you want her to break up with you before or after the wedding?
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Old 11-28-2016, 10:20 AM
 
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If she has no idea you are going to break up with her you definitely should go with her first. If things are bad between the two of you it's probably not a big deal when you do it.
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Old 11-28-2016, 10:23 AM
 
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I've been seeing this girl that I want to break up with. She was a wedding coming up on the weekend that I am going to with her. Should I wait until after the wedding so she doesn't have to go alone?
Maybe she won't go alone
Some people can sense when the relationship is bad enough to end, just break up with her if you really don't want to be with her anymore. If she does end up going alone, she has a better chance of meeting someone who actually likes her.
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Old 11-28-2016, 10:23 AM
 
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If the situation was reversed, would you want her to break up with you before or after the wedding?
Probably after. The only benefit of doing it before would be I could meet someone else at the wedding. But I probably would be too sad to have fun.
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Old 11-28-2016, 11:28 AM
 
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If you KNOW... tell her today.

If YOU know... she probably knows it too.
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Old 11-28-2016, 11:33 AM
 
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How do you know she is going to be sad?

Be ethical. Do not involve her in your lies and false behaviour.
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Old 11-28-2016, 11:55 AM
 
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Probably after. The only benefit of doing it before would be I could meet someone else at the wedding. But I probably would be too sad to have fun.
You're a mess!

Break up with her now! You are not doing her any favors.
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Old 11-28-2016, 11:56 AM
 
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Maybe she won't go alone
Some people can sense when the relationship is bad enough to end, just break up with her if you really don't want to be with her anymore. If she does end up going alone, she has a better chance of meeting someone who actually likes her.
Right! She could be single to mingle at the wedding.

Dump her! Dump her! Dump her!!
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Old 11-28-2016, 12:07 PM
 
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Just leave.

Don't be a coward and drag it out.
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