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Ok, so I was trying to be short in my explanation. Of things, I have had people tell me that an open relationship is being able to have sex with who ever, well that's not our relationship. We have discussed this in full details. I can play with women so long as they are willing to join the both of us also. He had said he was ok with having another man join us as well but that would never be alone. I did not have sex with not even meet another person. I am not saying that what I did was right, but we have been talking about trying to fix this problem which I caused and at least 2 a week he is now questioning what I'm doing. I have been trying to be comforting and understanding as well as honest with him about everything.
I have been married for 17 years to the man I truly love. We kinda have an open relationship, I recently started looking for a partner for use to have fun with together. I didn't tell my spouse right away that I was looking, but I did tell him and he told me that he was upset about the fact that I hide it from him at first. But then was ok with it, got envolved with the online talking and everything, but now we have been having trouble because he feels like he isn't enough, feels like I am hiding stuff from him ect. In the mean time there has been no chit chatting with the other person for the last few weeks but my husband is constantly worried and wondering if I'm hiding things. Help! How can I fix this?
I don't think he is the kind of person who can see you getting busy with another man if he already has such self esteem issues. If you moan too load or get a little too excited about another person in the bedroom, his insecurities will probably increase even more.
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