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Of course dear, actions are what's important not words.
I don't get your point.....sweetie.
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OP, just ask him if he needs to put the relationship on hold while he's juggling two jobs. You can focus on school and your job, he can focus on his two jobs. It's clear he doesn't have the time or energy for a relationship right now. He's made money his priority. So ask him if he wants to take a break from the relationship.
Well a pregnancy & childbirth might be a total of a 2 year period in the length of a 50 year relationship, if I had 2 pregnancies for example. If it's not satisfying me on a constant, month to month basis at this point so early on that's a bigger problem.
I adore your innocence. Unless you ship em off to grandma's house on a regular basic, count on children being c---blockers until they finally move out.
The fact is, grown up responsibilities can get in the way of getting laid as often as we like. If you are not ready for that reality and arent willing to be a little more understanding with what he has on his plate, you need to find someone else who can keep up with your needs.
I'm on here because this is an advice forum and I'm seeking advice on how to potentially fix the problem before offering the ultimatum of breaking up. There are multiple sides to a relationship.
You sound very selfish.
However, you also sound like a nymphomaniac! Which is not a bad thing. There is plenty of money to be made out there if you are looking for a second part time job.
Seriously, this is a FWB relationship. You both are not ready for something serious. I will tell you it appears its that time to break up.
Look on the bright side, you can still remain FWB once a week and fill in the other 4 days with another guy.
So sometime in September my boyfriend started working a second job, 5 days a week...
When I brought it up today after getting rejected again, he got upset a
nd told me that I have to make it work. He told me it's my job that gets in the way.
I try to be understanding because he's tired a lot but now I'm compromising on my basic needs.
Have you ever read (or remember) "the Gift of the Magi" ??
He is getting tired of you, he's got you already so his hormones are resting, he's getting older, all men are like that. What's in the end is never what it was in the beginning.
It seems like for him he's at a point in your relationship where sex is setting down and isn't a top priority anymore. This is actually pretty normal. Four or five times a week is great if you have the time but he obviously doesn't so you either deal with it or move on. He's really busy it's not like he's just withholding to mean.
Honestly though I would just talk to him to see if he even wants to continue the relationship with you because he might want out or he really just might be tired.
What is his longterm goal, does he want to keep working two jobs or is it just temporary?
Does he have a lot of debt that he needs to pay off right now?
He sounds very stressed out and you are adding to his stress with your demands and nagging.
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