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No, I'm saying that if you want to focus on the negatives of the situation (and there are some negatives), then focus on the REAL negatives that I listed. Don't start tearing yourself down by saying you don't know why she's attracted to you, etc.
You know what, I think im going to tell her very soon. I've come to the conclusion that it doesn't matter because 1) she apparently wants to be single for a year 2) I'm probably not her "type" anyway. It's eating me up and I just want to get it off my chest. Good or bad, I need to tell her to relieve myself.
If you can handle rejection, shrub it off, and move on? then by all means, go for it.
Personally, I have a minimum one year rule when it comes to getting emotionally involved with a woman that recently ends a relatioship. People in this post breakup stage typically aren't in good position to be making sound relatioship decisions.
Ugh! I don't know what to do! I can handle rejection, I just don't know about this scenario because it's complicated(roommate/friend). I tried to push her away the other day by telling her I'm going to "give her some space" as a friend. Since I know she may be going through alot. She rejected it(in a good way)by essentially saying that I'm stuck with her since we live together so there's no way I can give her space.
I wish I could set up a poll about what I should do lol
If you set up a poll, people will just choose "go for it" because they are bored of watching you capitulate. I think if you tallied the posts here anyway, "go for it" would outnumber "no way."
You just need to decide. Indecision is an unattractive quality.
Ok, I'm going to do it. I just have to figure out how to word it properly to not make it awkward.
Remember this idea?
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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
It's nice that you are respecting her wish to stay single for a year, so one thing you could say to test the waters is to ask her about that.
"So ... are you still set on being single for a year?" Or ask her when the year is up! LOL
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