How soon does a guy text after a date if interested (woman, people)
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I met a guy last night. I thought it went well, but maybe it didn't. He didn't text me when he got home, and also didn't text me today and it's already afternoon. Should I assume that I won't receive a text.
I thought he really liked me but ended with saying "it was really nice meeting you." I guess that was the kiss of death, yikes. I could have sworn there was a lot of chemistry.
Text him and find out
Personally I ALWAYS arrange the next date whilst on the date, then I usually send a text within 5/10 minutes after I've kissed them goodbye/put them in a cab etc saying " Sorry I forgot to say but would you give me a text when you get home just so I know you home safely please and again I've had a great night " sort of thing.
Communication is HUGE with me so I'm very good with it especially when we first start dating, I do the above as we both know we stand and it initiates conversation straight away, and reasures any fears they may have, plus it comes across as quite sweet in their eyes lol
But I know other blokes do things did differently but I'd definitely ring/text him to find out where you stand, If it's worst case scenario then at least YOU KNOW
I texted him: "I'm still laughing about all the ridiculousness of last night. Hope you have a good night tonight" and he responded back "haha last night was funny. I hope you have a great new years. Dont get too wild. Or do."
Personally I ALWAYS arrange the next date whilst on the date, then I usually send a text within 5/10 minutes after I've kissed them goodbye/put them in a cab etc saying " Sorry I forgot to say but would you give me a text when you get home just so I know you home safely please and again I've had a great night " sort of thing.
Communication is HUGE with me so I'm very good with it especially when we first start dating, I do the above as we both know we stand and it initiates conversation straight away, and reasures any fears they may have, plus it comes across as quite sweet in their eyes lol
But I know other blokes do things did differently but I'd definitely ring/text him to find out where you stand, If it's worst case scenario then at least YOU KNOW
I texted him: "I'm still laughing about all the ridiculousness of last night. Hope you have a good night tonight" and he responded back "haha last night was funny. I hope you have a great new years. Dont get too wild. Or do."
End of convo.
So yeah theres my answer.
Maybe he's just busy? ( out with friends, family etc ).... Don't get me wrong I'd be more assertive in reassuring but when I'm out and about I'm not really one to have conversations via text message with people out of respect for the people I'm with.
It might not be as you think love give him till tmrw and that's definitely your answer.
I met a guy last night. I thought it went well, but maybe it didn't. He didn't text me when he got home, and also didn't text me today and it's already afternoon. Should I assume that I won't receive a text.
I thought he really liked me but ended with saying "it was really nice meeting you." I guess that was the kiss of death, yikes. I could have sworn there was a lot of chemistry.
The best dates I have was with women who responded back first. As a guy if I respond back, a good chance a woman is not interested. If you're a woman and you are interested, you should be up front and let the man know.
I texted him: "I'm still laughing about all the ridiculousness of last night. Hope you have a good night tonight" and he responded back "haha last night was funny. I hope you have a great new years. Dont get too wild. Or do."
End of convo.
So yeah theres my answer.
Doesn't sound like he's that interested, maybe he's playing cool we don't know. He would've been better to send you a message before you did. Or at least his reply would include something like another date if he's really keen.
I texted him: "I'm still laughing about all the ridiculousness of last night. Hope you have a good night tonight" and he responded back "haha last night was funny. I hope you have a great new years. Dont get too wild. Or do."
It wasn't your question, but, I am a woman and I thank them for the date that eve or in the morning, regardless of what he is up to. I just think it is rude not to.
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lol
give him till tmrw and that's definitely your answer.
