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Old 01-02-2017, 12:31 AM
 
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Okay, so for New Year's I went to a local place as they were throwing a celebration with a live band. My friends were there, and after dinner, lots of drinkin' and dancin'. Of course at the countdown, we did the HAPPY NEW YEAR thing. A (female) friend of mine was there, as were her girlfriends. When the clock struck 12, and both of us loaded with liquor, we (to my intense surprise) kissed - passionately!
Mind you, we're friends. But I'm wondering if she's developing feelings. Anyway, we hung out 'til about 3 am, her girlfriends went home, so I offered her a ride home. My intention was to just drop her off safely and go home. We get to her house, I walk her to her door. Let's just say, I didn't go home right away (her choice).

Today, she calls me. She thinks I'm mad at her (absolutely not); she's apologizing all over hell's half-acre for "taking advantage of me". I actually don't feel that way, and see no point in her apologizing.

We did agree to be friends a long time ago. I think she's probably the only one I allowed to friendzone, but maybe the feelings are changing? Truthfully, I don't see us as bf/gf, but I don't mind what happened either. Am I being naive?
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Old 01-02-2017, 12:51 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Okay, so for New Year's I went to a local place as they were throwing a celebration with a live band. My friends were there, and after dinner, lots of drinkin' and dancin'. Of course at the countdown, we did the HAPPY NEW YEAR thing. A (female) friend of mine was there, as were her girlfriends. When the clock struck 12, and both of us loaded with liquor, we (to my intense surprise) kissed - passionately!
Mind you, we're friends. But I'm wondering if she's developing feelings. Anyway, we hung out 'til about 3 am, her girlfriends went home, so I offered her a ride home. My intention was to just drop her off safely and go home. We get to her house, I walk her to her door. Let's just say, I didn't go home right away (her choice).

Today, she calls me. She thinks I'm mad at her (absolutely not); she's apologizing all over hell's half-acre for "taking advantage of me". I actually don't feel that way, and see no point in her apologizing.

We did agree to be friends a long time ago. I think she's probably the only one I allowed to friendzone, but maybe the feelings are changing? Truthfully, I don't see us as bf/gf, but I don't mind what happened either. Am I being naive?
You guys were 'load up' with liquor and it was New Years. Think nothing else of it.

And Lol on the "taking advantage of me" thingy.
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Old 01-02-2017, 01:03 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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You guys were 'load up' with liquor and it was New Years. Think nothing else of it.

And Lol on the "taking advantage of me" thingy.
This EXACTLY

Rick if you don't want anything to become of it then that's all you have to know mate
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Old 01-02-2017, 01:47 AM
 
Location: Eugene, Oregon
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Okay, so for New Year's I went to a local place as they were throwing a celebration with a live band. My friends were there, and after dinner, lots of drinkin' and dancin'. Of course at the countdown, we did the HAPPY NEW YEAR thing. A (female) friend of mine was there, as were her girlfriends. When the clock struck 12, and both of us loaded with liquor, we (to my intense surprise) kissed - passionately!
Mind you, we're friends. But I'm wondering if she's developing feelings. Anyway, we hung out 'til about 3 am, her girlfriends went home, so I offered her a ride home. My intention was to just drop her off safely and go home. We get to her house, I walk her to her door. Let's just say, I didn't go home right away (her choice).

Today, she calls me. She thinks I'm mad at her (absolutely not); she's apologizing all over hell's half-acre for "taking advantage of me". I actually don't feel that way, and see no point in her apologizing.

We did agree to be friends a long time ago. I think she's probably the only one I allowed to friendzone, but maybe the feelings are changing? Truthfully, I don't see us as bf/gf, but I don't mind what happened either. Am I being naive?
Since you enjoyed what happened and she was willing, why not play this hand out and see what develops?
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Old 01-02-2017, 07:27 AM
 
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I'd say you're still in the friendzone unless some chemistry develops without the liquor involved
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Old 01-02-2017, 07:34 AM
 
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Why are you asking US? We have no idea. But now we know you got laid. Congratulations?
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Old 01-02-2017, 09:16 PM
 
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^^^^LOL I was thinking that too.
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Old 01-02-2017, 09:55 PM
 
Location: Minnesota
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Okay, so for New Year's I went to a local place as they were throwing a celebration with a live band. My friends were there, and after dinner, lots of drinkin' and dancin'. Of course at the countdown, we did the HAPPY NEW YEAR thing. A (female) friend of mine was there, as were her girlfriends. When the clock struck 12, and both of us loaded with liquor, we (to my intense surprise) kissed - passionately!
Mind you, we're friends. But I'm wondering if she's developing feelings. Anyway, we hung out 'til about 3 am, her girlfriends went home, so I offered her a ride home. My intention was to just drop her off safely and go home. We get to her house, I walk her to her door. Let's just say, I didn't go home right away (her choice).

Today, she calls me. She thinks I'm mad at her (absolutely not); she's apologizing all over hell's half-acre for "taking advantage of me". I actually don't feel that way, and see no point in her apologizing.

We did agree to be friends a long time ago. I think she's probably the only one I allowed to friendzone, but maybe the feelings are changing? Truthfully, I don't see us as bf/gf, but I don't mind what happened either. Am I being naive?
She might have developed feelings for you, but it's hard to tell when the other person is liquored up. I guess time will tell, but if you don't see a you and her as bf,gf, then it was just one of those "nights"
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Old 01-02-2017, 10:40 PM
 
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As I see it, the pendulum could swing either way, but I'm remaining neutral.
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Old 01-02-2017, 10:41 PM
 
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As of now, it sounds like just a NYE hookup.

Just chill and see what happens next.
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